Death’s Beauty
Dreaded outcomes
despised harvest
ending up like that
the lonely one
becoming my nightmare
without a fight
numb as a dead body
cold reality buried
expression, my only gift
earned in blood
descriptions egressing
from sores of pain
cold fingers of misery
coaxing every drop
Beautiful deaths shimmer
as distant liquid flames
breezes scented
flavours sweetened
endless finalities
final breaths forever
the last goodbye
a reflection of always
Deaths hand as limp carcasses
draping sickly
like wet rags of sorrow
my dead sun defecating it’s rays
on my garden of shivering dread
death too soon in my prime
leaving the needy behind
I am my own composition
my every component
I design every structure
I own every reflection
I burn every shadow
I voice every echo
design every thought
every action
craft every dream
mold every desire
I live beneath the trench of my soul
I am the plague which destroys my infection
my dreams melt from blackened clouds
then fall as scarlet rain
Warning! screams explode
open not your eyes
don’t look behind you!
I fall to my knees crying
forever alone, a stain on searing love
dust of my memories inhaled
choking those who listen
a thousand eyes upon me
as I melt into the forgotten
Tomb of Sleep
Almost, I can taste it’s scent
barely, my reflection still hidden
from the other side
breath steam
on the tips of my fingers
Reverse negative
my antagonist of opposition
my brother of contrast
being as both halves
human inversion
my contradiction
Electric ice flames of totality
never burn
but as transparent fires
with smokeless embers
standing still with time
side by side
ignited in winter’s furnace
Dying death’s death
my violent convulsion
my finality
death’s last shiver
Thoughtless minds of cold dead
dry thickly as arid slabs
packed into the grave of charred skulls
behind the masks of paralyzed faces
chloroformed into a coma of living
living as programmed
to stay out of the way
to die in what were told
life is. . .
A note to readers:
I wrote this when I was in a tomb of depression, burning in misery unable to get air into my imploded lungs. For four days of my darkest moments, I was unable to walk. I dreamed that someone was stabbing members of my family to death in another room. I was able to rise from the floor and ran to protect my family from harm and to unleash a wicked fury upon anyone who stood before me. Anyone there would suffer my personal judgment. I realized that the people I was trying to protect were already dead. All had died years ago, and for a moment in time, I believed they were still alive.
I fell to my knees…crying like a baby…knowing no matter how hard I tried, I could not bring them back. What a horrible delusion to have…a vile nightmare which made me so sick, I dry heaved for several hours.
In that dream, I had been enjoying happy, meaningful conversations and activities with my deceased father. It was so beautiful, so utterly wonderful, I didn’t want it to end. My father and I never actually had any of that. Perhaps it was wishful thinking. Perhaps it was my father reaching from death to tell me he loved me. Maybe it was pure insanity.
Whatever it was and however horrifying it was to realize he was dead for a second time, those moments were the most precious times I ever had with him…even though it was just a dream…I will cherish it forever because I needed it, I wanted it to be real.
I cannot protect him…he is gone. I wanted to, so badly, anyone trying to hurt him…well…by the time they realized what happened, they’d already be dead. At least I know, that no one will hurt another person before my eyes…not without dealing with me.
It has been said that violence is the supreme authority from which all authority is derived. I must disagree. Real authority is not backed by violence, it is backed by peace. The world we live in with it’s weak men using violence as an authority has got to stop.
Whether it is Osama or the USA killing people, it is the mark of cowardice and weakness. If I saw someone attacking my mother, or for that matter, a woman or child on the street – would I kill that person? Yes…I would. I would also spend the rest of my life in prison…or would I refrain from such an act?
All of this has me thinking…I would not kill them, if I could stop them without needing to. If they lie on the ground, disarmed…there would be no need to let a raging fulguration of anger stomp skull into mush. I could simply call the police after I subdued them.
I let go of much inner anger that day. For I am not a man of violence or evil. I am a man of peace and love. It just hurts to lose people. Losing my father and only having a few precious months of love between us as he was bed ridden, dying of cancer, was better than not having those moments at all.
In my dream, he was healthy. For some reason, I thought he was just sick. Everyone told me he was fine. I ran in the living room and hugged him. We grew a garden together and talked like real friends. When I realized, upon awakening, that he was dead…it hurt more than the first time I found out. What a nightmare.
If it weren’t for the love of the many people I have met blogging, I might not be here. Thank you everyone…my road to recovery is not going to be easy. The anti-depressant I am taking has made me feel really strange. I slept for about 36 hours and had no dreams I could remember. I feel pretty good other than that. Let’s hope for a little happiness around here ![]()
Thank you from the bottom of my heart





#1 by paisley at November 22nd, 2007
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i was taken aback by the deepness you shared with us here today bobby… i couldn’t help but feel as i read them,, what a powerful provocateur of life death really is…
words of wisdom flow more easily from the wounded soul.. i find myself full to overflowing when i am in the pangs of depression,, and often empty struggling for a single word,, when i am whole…
make use of the emotions,,, allow them to bring your words to life ,, they will be the light ,,, if you let them…
paisley’s last blog post..happy thanksgiving!!!!
#2 by Sara at November 22nd, 2007
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Bobby,
I’m glad you have rebounded and are dealing with things. I wanted to stop by and wish you a Happy Thanksgiving!! I hope you have a great day.
Sara
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#3 by Brown Baron at November 22nd, 2007
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The level of happiness we can achieve is related to the depth of sadness and despair we have experienced. You my friend, will have pure bliss.
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#4 by WaterLearner at November 22nd, 2007
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Hi Bobby,
I don’t know what more I can say. How I can share more of the pain you are going through.
May you have Strength.
Blessings!
WaterLearner’s last blog post..Sound of Music
#5 by emila at November 22nd, 2007
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Great poems, Bobby. Thank you for sharing your dreams. Telling dreams often brought a tremendous sense of relief. I can feel that you are coming out of silence and solitude. This is a good sign Bobby. I always think that dreams play a critical role in learning and memory. I treat them as wake up calls and often trying to interpret what it means.
Am so glad that the medication works for you. Happy Thanksgiving, Bobby.
emila’s last blog post..Throwback Thursday: One Year Old Yassin
#6 by Genie Princess at November 22nd, 2007
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Hi Bobby, I’m just glad u’re feeling better. Like u said, the road to recovery is not easy but you’ll get there with some faith and hope. Have a nice weekend Bobby!
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#7 by Mel at November 23rd, 2007
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You are very talented. It feels good to know that you are there and doing what you do so well!!!
Happy Thanksgiving.
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#8 by waterlearner at November 23rd, 2007
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I knew that Trin’s site got stolen wholesale recently. I did not know that your’s was the target as well!! Oh my! How unfair. Tell me the site! I will go comment and give the thief a piece of my mind.
waterlearner’s last blog post..Sound of Music
#9 by Mel at November 23rd, 2007
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Bobby,
The following comment is in response the comment you left on my site:
Just to be clear, what you are saying is that 131 different sites have taken some of your material and claimed it as theirs without asking permission or even linking back to your site? At the same time you have lost 173 subscribers?
I can’t comment on what has happened of the resulting PR. However, I can tell you that PR engine has been down for a while. I am also showing no PR rating at this time.
What I can tell you is that what I am hearing from you is dangerous. What I mean by that is that you are allowing it to consume you, “It will not be easy but the people responsible for stealing my content must pay for what they have done.” This is a very destructive path that you are traveling.
Also, I can’t see a relationship between loosing subscribers and content theft. The probably reason for the loss of subscribers is that you gave every impression that you were leaving blogging forever. You have to take responsibility for the subscriber loss. Continue blogging with passion and “positivity” and your subscriber base will return.
And try not to get so hung up on numbers. You know how good you are and we know how good you are.
The most important thing for you at this time is “stay positive,” knowing how many people care about you.
Of course, do what you must do to resolve this, but don’t let it consume you.
Mel’s last blog post..New Turkey Recipe
#10 by Andrea at November 23rd, 2007
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Hi Bobby,
Thanks for sharing, but most importantly thank you for thinking you are worth it… a chance of recovery. Keep positive, keep faith and allow friendship and support help you when needed. Your father visited you to show you love and to believe..the garden you grew together is showing you new life…out of negative, comes positive, out of depression will come health. Your father is with you…
Many blessings Bobby
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#11 by Robin Lee Sardini at November 23rd, 2007
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Hi Bobby,
What a gifted writer you are! Unfortunately it is often when we are in the deepest of trenches that the most profound and life-revealing writing occurs. This has been true for me over the years, too. It is when we are the most vulnerable that the facade we wear in public disintegrates and we are left with raw, uncensored content from which to draw expression.
Historically speaking, you are among many great writers. Edgar Allan Poe suffered from “melancholy” as it was described then. Artists and wordsmiths are sensitive souls who not only absorb everything like a sponge, but express and spew out that which pains them.
I pray you will know your greatness and worth!
Hugs to you.
Robin Lee Sardini’s last blog post..Answers Will Come
#12 by Brent at November 23rd, 2007
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All the trees fall
The rivers flood
Night becomes day
and everything fades away
Pictures in my mind
They’re signs all the time
Reality pushes in
The time has come and been
Nightmare – 2001
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#13 by clairec23 at November 24th, 2007
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That scraping thing is happening on my wordpress blog too. A lot of people are complaining about it lately. I didn’t even know you could do anything about it to be honest.
As for your words…you really open your heart, I think that’s amazing. Dreams…I often dream the dead are living and those dreams are great. Then waking up and remembering is so heartbreaking. The dreams stay with you and all the what ifs just rerun through your head.
#14 by Sueblimely at November 24th, 2007
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Your poetry is powerful, Bobby. Would you say writing, which in a way externalizes your feelings, helps you through your depression?
Pagerank or not your blog still appears well up in Google searches and you have a great crowd of loyal supportive readers. You likely get a fair bit of traffic from membership of social networking sites too? Hopefully Google’s recent purge on paid for advertising on sites will go someway to making sites with copied content less visible and viable. It has of course hurt respectable sites too and I am suspicious of Googles intentions.
They say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. I would leave out sincere in this particular case but the better the blog content the more it is going to be stolen. No consolation to you perhaps but I hope you can take some comfort from the fact that you are a brilliant writer and ethical blogger.
I am wondering what we can all do to help you get that pagerank – make sure we link to you from our blogs, write reviews of your blog, stumble/digg your posts maybe? These are some ways we could help fight back. Lets make use of whatever blogger power we have!!
Sueblimely’s last blog post..Style changes
#15 by Agen Iklan at November 24th, 2007
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I am trailing behind circumtances.
Your poem is so deeply drift the soul.
Still strength, Bob.
Happy thanksgiving.
Agen Iklan’s last blog post..CLIMB BABY, CLIMB!
#16 by Colin at November 24th, 2007
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Hi Bobby,
The road to recovery is time and patience, believe in yourself and your own abilities. You’re a great blogger and have a wonderful following.
There is much more to it than that though, there is a whole new world outside too.
I remeber my father dying in my arms some 25 years ago….we never got on, our attitudes were very different, but like you I have had similar experiences since when we are having great times together. Quarter of a century on and it still seems like yesterday.
It’s an inspiration to read what you have written….take care Bobby and have a good weekend.
Colin
Colin’s last blog post..The Internet is Like A Dick
#17 by Bobo at November 24th, 2007
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Life is a mixture of sunshine and rain,
Laughter and pleasure, teardrops and pain,
All days can’t be bright, but it’s certainly true,
There was never a cloud the sun didn’t shine through!
So just keep on smiling whatever betide you,
Secure in the knowledge God is always beside you,
And you’ll find when you smile your day will be brighter
And all of your burdens will seem so much lighter!
For each time you smile you will find it is true
Somebody, somewhere will smile back at you,
And nothing on earth can make life more worthwhile
Than the sunshine and warmth of a beautiful smile.
-Helen Steiner Rice
Bobby I told you that I wanted to compose my own little poem for you but the Bimbo juices weren’t very helpful today and I couldn’t. But I still want to share this poem with you. It’s a poem my teacher shared with me when I was twelve and I had remembered it since then.
Although I don’t believe in Religion itself, but I do believe that there will never be a cloud that the sun cannot shine through. And while waiting for the sun to break through, I’ll be the little light for you. *hugs*
Bobo’s last blog post..This weekend?
#18 by Genie Princess at November 24th, 2007
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Hola Bobby, cheer up cause ur bday is coming up!
I love ur comment on my Benji post LOL!! Made my day. It was nice of u to drop by today. Hugs!
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#19 by Simonne at November 24th, 2007
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We may lose the ones we love, but they may not be lost. Maybe spirits are forever, like so many religions teach us. Too bad we were raised in a century of atheism, so we are not prepared to face death. Our ancestors were better at this chapter of life (death is part of life, after all).
Thoughtful poems. You have a strange charm.
Simonne’s last blog post..My Best Blogging Achievement – Group Writing Project
#20 by Christy at November 25th, 2007
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You are a brilliant writer Bobby, and a true poet. I’m so glad you’re feeling better. It’s amazing that you were able to express yourself so beautifully even in your darkest hours. You are truly a sensitive and creative soul.
The Blaze
Set fire to my pen.
Ignite my words
until they?re seared
into your memory.
When emotions smolder
and paper turns to ash,
sift remnants for lyrics,
pull verse from remains,
until inspiration sparks
and my pen is lit again.
Keep writing Bobby, and keep inspiring!
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#21 by Revellian at November 25th, 2007
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Thanks Christy! I really like your little poem…very cool
I am not going to be writing the same material people are used to here and do not care if it scares them off.
#22 by Revellian at November 22nd, 2007
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Thank you Paisley. I have fought it all my life but I am realizing that I am just as dark as I am light. I cannot be happy without experiencing the most horrible things life has to offer. It is where I dwell…in the pit, burning. I cannot hide myself from people. I will write regardless of consequence and if people don’t want to read it then I don’t care.
Most people write, hiding who they are. Happy all day…always smiling, always filled with cheer, it’s a facade of lies. Sure they wouldn’t want someone to think this or that as the public may see through their pristine reputation.
A reputation? Ha ha ha…isn’t worth anything in my book. If a person strives to protect their own (or another person’s) reputation, they are living a lie and manufacturing a false image.
Thank you for reading my post and commenting, I will never forget it
#23 by Revellian at November 23rd, 2007
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Thank you Sara! I know I haven’t visited in a while and I apologize for that,. Happy Thanksgiving to you too
#24 by Revellian at November 23rd, 2007
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Thank you Brown Baron, it hasn’t been easy and doesn’t seem to be getting easier. I hope you are right and I will fight to get out of this. I know now why I have a page rank of zero. It has been stolen. My content hasn’t been stolen just a few times, it has been stolen HUNDREDS of times. It may take years to report all the stealing.
I am finding out that these scraper sites are protected more than the originators of content. I have a report coming up. I don’t want to spend all day long reporting these sites but in order to take these sites off line I may have too. I cannot afford to pay for professional protection. When I published this post…it was scraped by 4 sites immediately – seemingly in real time.
Man, I cannot take it right now and it’s making everything I have worked so hard for, worthless. I am….ok I have to stop ranting and save this for a post. Your friendship is needed more than ever and I want you to know I am here for you too if you ever need me for ANYTHING
#25 by Revellian at November 23rd, 2007
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It seems that all day, every breath is filled with pain Karen and I am now confronted with nearly all of my content being stolen so many times I may not ever figure out how many. It’s like having your bank account stolen everyday, over and over and then it’s your car stolen. Buy a new one and it’s stolen…over and over.
Why must it be like this? Thanks for sticking it out with me when many others have quit coming around. I know you are here because you really are a friend
#26 by Revellian at November 23rd, 2007
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Thanks Emila! It has been the hardest thing I have ever done. Now, realizing that all of my website content has be stolen multiple times is just adding one more thing to the pile. I think the same thing has happened to you. I will publish a way you can start compiling a list of when it happens coming up next.
Not all website content is stolen. You and I are not as fortunate as others. I am on a quest to take these sites off line and put the people behind them in jail. It should be an international law punishable by prison sentence to steal content. I have put my all into this site and to have it taken away…hurts.
Thanks for being there Emila, it means soooo much
#27 by Revellian at November 23rd, 2007
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Thanks Marzie! It may take forever and if it does, I’ll be battling forever. Weekend? What’s that…LOL!!! Everyday seems like the same day sometimes. I’m sorry I still can’t come by everyday and I miss you so much, it really hurts.
I have 131 or is it 137 complaints to file against sites stealing my content. I cannot believe the extent of it. I am bewildered by what I am going to have to go through just to own my own content. Please let just one good thing happen for me this year. I’m going to end up a basket case before this is all over.
I need your friendship more than ever and I am sorry to vent my frustrations. Thank you for being my friend through thick and thin
#28 by emila at November 23rd, 2007
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Oh my! I didn’t know that! I know that Trinity’s content has been duplicate but never crossed my mind that yours and mine has been too! Please let me know how to check who has the same content as me. Thanks Bobby. Will wait for your inputs.
emila’s last blog post..Throwback Thursday: One Year Old Yassin
#29 by Revellian at November 23rd, 2007
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You can’t do that Karen…then you will be targeted as well. It’s done automatically. They are called scraper sites which steal or quote a portion of each new post you write and link it back to you…as if they are doing you a favor. Most people would see it and not realize what it is.
It’ll have a quoted portion of your post linked to you. All the posts on the site are made up of these quotes. There are no comments on them. It’s a completely automated procedure. Once one scraper site is uncovered and taken off line, 10 new ones replace it with improved facility for stealing just enough content to ruin your search engine rankings and fuel their own.
Mine hasn’t been stolen once, it’s been stolen HUNDREDS of times and I have to report all of them by myself. It has ruined my site and it keeps happening more and more and more. I am sickened by it. Stay away from them. You don’t confront them directly. They make it very difficult. It seems Google cares more about protecting them than the person who actually wrote it.
#30 by Revellian at November 23rd, 2007
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Thanks for the compliment Mel! I am far from well but I am at least posting something! Happy Thanksgiving
#31 by Revellian at November 23rd, 2007
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You need to insert a digital fingerprint in all of your posts. I’ll show you how
#32 by emila at November 23rd, 2007
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Cool! Thanks Bobby!
emila’s last blog post..Throwback Thursday: One Year Old Yassin
#33 by Revellian at November 24th, 2007
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No Mel, my site has been scraped, which has ruined my search engine rankings. I am not going to freak out, I’m going to file the necessary complaints to have them taken down, which is the normal procedure.
I hope it doesn’t happen to you. Thanks for the advice and I am listening
I had to get it off my chest and I feel better for it. I’m not really going to worry about any of this. Once I get it out of my system I can relax, which I’ve done. Thanks Mel
#34 by Revellian at November 24th, 2007
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Thank you Bobo
So sweet!!!! I think you made me very happy! Don’t worry if the juices of imagination weren’t flowing today…there’s always the times that they will. Thanks for making my day
#35 by Revellian at November 24th, 2007
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Thanks Colin! Though I wasn’t abused physically, I was mentally. I think sometimes I would have rather been beaten than what I went through. I have so many things to work through, many of which, I thought were already taken care of. It’s an endless process but I’m getting better
#36 by Revellian at November 24th, 2007
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Thanks Sueblimely, I am over all ranking and will not let it bother me. My site will always have a zero rank, even with 100,000 page views per month. Though what I wrote may appear dark to most, it is really a purging of feelings.
Sometimes, the only way to get it out, is to write about it!!!
#37 by Revellian at November 24th, 2007
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Thanks Andrea! I’m actually in a good mood so I will enjoy it
I know many other people have much worse problems than I have ever imagined and I know I’ll be fine
#38 by Revellian at November 24th, 2007
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Thank you Robin!!! It was necessary and it happened naturally. I am glad you didn’t take it as something negative as it wasn’t meant to be. You have been a big help to me and I thank you SOOOO much
#39 by Revellian at November 24th, 2007
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Thanks Brent! Long time no see buddy, I will come visit you! Very nice poetry
#40 by Revellian at November 25th, 2007
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Thanks Clairec23, yeah…the problem is that most people (95%) don’t know what a scraper site is or how to tell that it is one. However, I am uncovering who actually owns some of them. People who own them should be prosecuted just like any other criminal and thrown in jail.
#41 by Revellian at November 25th, 2007
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I believe that atheism can make a person miss out on things beautiful and wondrous; though not in all cases. I believe that when you side with people of your own faith or lack thereof, you personally create a gap. That is a bad thing. I notice it all the time.
Thanks Simmone
#42 by Revellian at November 25th, 2007
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You are welcome Genie Princess! I’m too old to celebrate birthdays anymore LOL!!!
#43 by Revellian at December 23rd, 2007
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Thanks Agen