Comments on: Storm of Tears http://revellian.com/2008/04/04/storm-of-tears/ Thoughts and Fiction of Bobby Revell Fri, 05 Feb 2010 20:29:08 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Joh http://revellian.com/2008/04/04/storm-of-tears/comment-page-1/#comment-6299 Joh Sun, 18 May 2008 01:43:47 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=673#comment-6299 I can relate to so much of what you have written. There is nothing like a good cry though to release the pain and make it good again. I think crying is a blessing! This is my first lengthy visit to your blog and I like much of what you have written, but I think this post is my favourite. Human! <em>Joh's last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/feedburner/VKAO/~3/292246151/theres-a-beautiful-mess-inside.html' rel="nofollow">There’s a Beautiful Mess Inside</a></em> I can relate to so much of what you have written. There is nothing like a good cry though to release the pain and make it good again. I think crying is a blessing! This is my first lengthy visit to your blog and I like much of what you have written, but I think this post is my favourite. Human!

Joh’s last blog post..There’s a Beautiful Mess Inside

]]> By: Stefanie http://revellian.com/2008/04/04/storm-of-tears/comment-page-1/#comment-6275 Stefanie Wed, 09 Apr 2008 15:09:09 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=673#comment-6275 It's a shame that so many young women will take 10-20 years in bad relationships before they figure out that their moms and grandmas were right - there are plenty of nice men out there if they'd just stop settling down with the flashy bad boy types. Meanwhile, eligible guys like you end up with a string of crazies that ultimately waste your time and make it harder for you to trust someone worthwhile when she does come along. Once I figured out how to find the nice guys (fortunately at a pretty young age), I briefly dated a couple and picked out a keeper pretty quickly. I guess the only help I can offer is to look for happy families (low divorce rate, family togetherness, that sort of thing) and then figure out if they have any single women. It's really the only reliable indicator I've ever really noticed, looking around at my sane female friends :) It’s a shame that so many young women will take 10-20 years in bad relationships before they figure out that their moms and grandmas were right – there are plenty of nice men out there if they’d just stop settling down with the flashy bad boy types. Meanwhile, eligible guys like you end up with a string of crazies that ultimately waste your time and make it harder for you to trust someone worthwhile when she does come along.

Once I figured out how to find the nice guys (fortunately at a pretty young age), I briefly dated a couple and picked out a keeper pretty quickly. I guess the only help I can offer is to look for happy families (low divorce rate, family togetherness, that sort of thing) and then figure out if they have any single women. It’s really the only reliable indicator I’ve ever really noticed, looking around at my sane female friends :)

]]> By: Eric "Speedcat Hollydale" http://revellian.com/2008/04/04/storm-of-tears/comment-page-1/#comment-6279 Eric "Speedcat Hollydale" Mon, 07 Apr 2008 16:35:59 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=673#comment-6279 It proves that you are comfortable with yourself, and who you are to share feelings. I think we all have moments like these - just not all men are strong enough to admit them. I find myself reflecting quite a bit lately. I think it is part of the way we evolve as humans, becoming better people, and more aware of what is REALLY important to us, not just what we want at any given moment. <em>Eric "Speedcat Hollydale"'s last blog post..<a href='http://speedcathollydale.blogspot.com/2008/04/longing-for-home.html' rel="nofollow">Longing for Home</a></em> It proves that you are comfortable with yourself, and who you are to share feelings. I think we all have moments like these – just not all men are strong enough to admit them.
I find myself reflecting quite a bit lately. I think it is part of the way we evolve as humans, becoming better people, and more aware of what is REALLY important to us, not just what we want at any given moment.

Eric “Speedcat Hollydale”’s last blog post..Longing for Home

]]> By: Revellian http://revellian.com/2008/04/04/storm-of-tears/comment-page-/#comment-6284 Revellian Mon, 07 Apr 2008 14:45:32 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=673#comment-6284 I'm your favourite dude? Well then...you're my favourite chic :smile: I am doing well Karen. I felt down the day I wrote this post, but quickly bounced back. I cannot allow myself to be depressed like I used to. Thanks for checking on me...it means the world to me :grin: I’m your favourite dude? Well then…you’re my favourite chic :smile: I am doing well Karen. I felt down the day I wrote this post, but quickly bounced back. I cannot allow myself to be depressed like I used to. Thanks for checking on me…it means the world to me :grin:

]]> By: Revellian http://revellian.com/2008/04/04/storm-of-tears/comment-page-/#comment-6283 Revellian Mon, 07 Apr 2008 14:37:13 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=673#comment-6283 I'm actually a little embarrassed that I wrote this post, but I really had to get it out. Thanks Billy :smile: I’m actually a little embarrassed that I wrote this post, but I really had to get it out. Thanks Billy :smile:

]]> By: Revellian http://revellian.com/2008/04/04/storm-of-tears/comment-page-/#comment-6282 Revellian Mon, 07 Apr 2008 14:31:24 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=673#comment-6282 Thanks so much Sean! You always give me very useful comments - they are filled with wisdom. I'm definitely not looking for a perfect relationship with a perfect person - that is far removed from reality. I have had relationships with some truly evil women. I do know that is not my fault and will find a normal one...eventually. I will stay positive and believe good will come! :smile: Thanks so much Sean! You always give me very useful comments – they are filled with wisdom. I’m definitely not looking for a perfect relationship with a perfect person – that is far removed from reality. I have had relationships with some truly evil women. I do know that is not my fault and will find a normal one…eventually. I will stay positive and believe good will come! :smile:

]]> By: waterlearner http://revellian.com/2008/04/04/storm-of-tears/comment-page-1/#comment-6281 waterlearner Mon, 07 Apr 2008 14:01:28 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=673#comment-6281 Yozz Dude, here to check out my favourite dude again. How are u doing? :neutral: <em>waterlearner's last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/JourneyWithWaterLearner/~3/259467113/idle.html' rel="nofollow">Idle</a></em> Yozz Dude,

here to check out my favourite dude again.

How are u doing?

:neutral:

waterlearner’s last blog post..Idle

]]> By: Revellian http://revellian.com/2008/04/04/storm-of-tears/comment-page-/#comment-6292 Revellian Mon, 07 Apr 2008 13:23:01 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=673#comment-6292 Thanks Judy! You know, I almost got married a few times but it was actually me who backed out, mostly because I didn't fully trust them. I know in my heart that I made the right decision. I would be married to the wrong woman. I would rather be alone than to be married to someone who really doesn't love me, and that's exactly the situation I had. I hope and pray your life gets better. I guess my grass is green enough for now :smile: Thanks Judy! You know, I almost got married a few times but it was actually me who backed out, mostly because I didn’t fully trust them. I know in my heart that I made the right decision. I would be married to the wrong woman. I would rather be alone than to be married to someone who really doesn’t love me, and that’s exactly the situation I had. I hope and pray your life gets better. I guess my grass is green enough for now :smile:

]]> By: Revellian http://revellian.com/2008/04/04/storm-of-tears/comment-page-/#comment-6291 Revellian Mon, 07 Apr 2008 13:18:18 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=673#comment-6291 Thanks Setu, I am basically starting a whole new life. The transition has been extremely painful and at times unbearable. You are so young and have your whole life ahead of you. I wish you great and positive success :smile: Thanks Setu, I am basically starting a whole new life. The transition has been extremely painful and at times unbearable. You are so young and have your whole life ahead of you. I wish you great and positive success :smile:

]]> By: Revellian http://revellian.com/2008/04/04/storm-of-tears/comment-page-/#comment-6290 Revellian Mon, 07 Apr 2008 13:12:07 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=673#comment-6290 Morgan! Yes, I know that you truly understand what I'm going through. It can be difficult for people to understand what it's like to sever ties with literally every friend you ever had. 95% of every friend I have ever had is a drug addict, so that's 95% of my friends out of my life completely. Thanks for your uplifting and beautiful comment - it means a great deal to me :smile: Morgan! Yes, I know that you truly understand what I’m going through. It can be difficult for people to understand what it’s like to sever ties with literally every friend you ever had. 95% of every friend I have ever had is a drug addict, so that’s 95% of my friends out of my life completely. Thanks for your uplifting and beautiful comment – it means a great deal to me :smile:

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