Change your blogging attitude for blogging inspiration? I know I said I’d never write another blogging tips post, but I lied . . . sort of. I caught glimpse of some Twitter Tweets where a few people voiced their lack of blogging inspiration or they were a little burned out. So . . . what is the cure? What can you do to incite blogging passion–to get excited about writing? Fire breathing, over the top full throttle freaking blogging excitement? Well, I have a few ideas and I will share them with you.
For me, variety is the answer. I dropped to my knees and thanked God I don’t write only about a specific niche. I simply cannot do that. I am too scattered and have far too many thoughts to write only about one subject. Hey, if you can do that successfully . . . more power to you. I respect that. I admire that; however, if you come to a place where you cannot think of anything good to write–might I suggest: change your attitude. Sounds simple enough, but we often get caught up in real life or soured moods which can kill our inspiration. Write about something you’ve never even considered or that you fear.
Personally, I like to change subject matter quite abruptly. I may write a philosophical article one day and a transgressive fictional story the next. I like change . . . I love change. If you’re a poet, write a poem about something you’ve never attempted–venture into the unknown. I’ve written articles about everything from politics to Zen to murder and all between–no subject out of reach. As I progress forward, I will be taking this blog into the netherworlds. My next post is a fiction story filled with sex, blood and dysfunction–highly detailed and somewhat pornographic, but I must write what I want. As I say, this is my blog. I am the owner of my blog. That means a lot to me and you should feel the same way.
Now, I have found many new blog articles I found particularly inspiring and I wanted to share. I used to write a weekly post called Bobby’s Batch, where I shared links to great posts every Sunday and I’m going to start that once more . . . next Sunday. I used to give tons of links to other bloggers and I miss that. So I must give away some blogging gifts today to get into and keep the giving spirit of Christmas going all year long. Between writing my novels, blogging and work, I have a difficult time (or little time) doing weekly reviews, but I will do my best.
Your Love’s Small Hands by poet Jé Maverick. I’m no huge fan of love poems unless they are truly great–this one is impeccably written and powerful. Jé is one of my favorite poets. Read and you’ll see why. It is beautiful.
Writing Prompt: Bone Tired by Jennifer of Writing To Survive. I’m new to Jennifer’s blog, but I’ve read dozens of her articles. She is a fantastic writer and I really loved this piece. It’s short, potent, packed with insight, vivid thought and artistic nuance–a real treat.
jazz at four a.m. by Candy of Inside Candy. This poem is so utterly great I cannot think of anything to say. You must read it for yourself. It is smoky and intoxicating.
Two Glasses by Selma of Selma in the City. I met Selma through reading comments on Why Paisley and Meleah Rebeccah’s blogs. Again, I am new to her site, but she has much to offer. This article deals with the glass half full/empty metaphor and inspired me to think about my own attitude and how changing perspective can change your attitude–the theme of this post. A great article!
Nothing Ventured Nothing Gained by Melinda Roberts of The Melindaville Blog. This is an extremely inspiring post. Melinda is a new friend, but I feel like I already know her. From the gloom of heroin addiction to being accepted into Harvard. If that doesn’t inspire, I don’t know what will. A must read.
Inside The Writing Community by Melissa Donovan of Writing Forward. A great article about writing, writers and the writing community–the loneliness of the long distance writer. Melissa has one of the few blogs about writing that I actually like. She has many great articles to enjoy!
One central concept to each of these writers is where they draw inspiration from. From other writers? From movies? I’d say from life itself. Life offers much more inspiration than any written work. And that’s the point. I am more inspired from how other writers interpret what they sense than what they actually write–if that makes any sense. I have many more articles to place in the limelight coming up soon.
Now to some other inspiring words. Around 10 years ago I came across a book called The Advancing Guitarist by Mick Goodrick. This is in my opinion one of the greatest books ever written about guitar–because it’s not about learning guitar in a system. He says learn guitar by a certain method and you become a product of that method–limiting yourself. For instance, learn classical guitar the standard way, and with practice, you’ll play classical guitar as written–but you will not be free to express yourself. This is quite similar to Bruce Lee’s book The Tao of Jeet Kune Do. Learn Karate at a Karate school–soon enough you’ll be a black belt who cannot fight. This is so true. Bruce took bits and pieces from all fighting methods, distilled only what worked in an actual street fight while rejecting everything else–ridding himself of what he called the classical mess. And everything Bruce said was true–just look at the explosion of MMA fighters in the UFC and such. All of these fighters use multiple arts and reject useless crap.
I have taken some of guitarist Mick Goodrick’s quotes and altered them for writing inspiration–because most bloggers will not buy a guitar book to get writing inspiration or read endless guitar magazines (like me)–so I will share a few of his gems with those of you who have no idea who Mick Goodrick is. He is a true guitar master–one of those guys nobody has heard of, but teaches many of the world’s foremost guitarists in private lessons. Not only that, from what I’ve read of him, he seems to be a Zen master of the highest order. All of these quotes are incredibly useful to any writer. Here you are:
- Competition: If you must compete, try to keep it to yourself.
- Control usually means slowing down.
- No single approach seems to work all the time.
- Remember: Writing is (basically) a communal sport.
- Don’t neglect your roots.
- Read into how the audience reads (whether it’s one person or 10,000).
- To keep learning: aim at always being a beginner.
- Are you totally responsible for what you write? Of course not.
- If even one person reads your work, your writing is drastically altered.
- There have been (and still are) many great writers. Read their work.
- Students often ask me: “Should I do A or B?” Most of the time I ask them, “Why not do both?”
- About writing tempo–the speed at which something happens in your work:
If describing a fast paced situation, write it with a slow descriptive feel.
If describing a slow paced situation, write it with a faster feeling tempo. - It is very important to find the appropriate emotional energy for whatever’s being written.
- No matter how good you get, there’s more. Go after it, improve it, write it and give it away. Never try to be the best. Always try to be the best you can be.
- It seems that the better you get, the more you see the importance of “fundamentals”.
- In writing, your greatest sense of identity usually occurs when “you” are hardly there at all.
- Don’t ever forget: when you’re writing, someone is reading–or are supposed to be. That means you.
- Writing comes from life. Many times you’ll find that you learn more about writing from life than from writing or reading.
- Sometimes it’s better to be aware of the intentionality rather than the specifics.
- If you truly love what you are doing, you can handle failure and success. (In fact, I would think that’s the only way anyone could handle success).
- It’s not how many words you know, or literary theories, or plot structure or technical ability that matters. What matters is what you do with those things.
- Don’t try to make a study of your own individuality (that’s what a person’s whole life amounts to anyway!) Make studies of everyone else’s individuality.
- All purpose expression: Whenever you see anything (inside yourself or outside yourself) say, “Whatever it is, it’s an absolutely perfect example of whatever it is.”
- Everyone may not have the ability to be a great writer; but everyone does have the ability to improve, to get better. To me, that’s more important.
- The most difficult thing about finding “your own path” is that you’re already on it (whether you like it or not)! More than likely (whether you know it or not), you’ve never left it! That’s why finding it is so difficult.
- Individuality seems to have a lot to do with being true to yourself. Being true to yourself is not always easy. In fact, you may have to teach yourself how to do it. Finding your “own voice” is not always pleasant. When your own “voice” emerges, you may not even recognize it.
As I said, I changed up these quotes a bit to fit writing, but writing and music have much in common. Being a writer or musician are more similar than different. I’ve bought more than 100 copies of his book The Advancing Guitarist and given it to my own guitar students once they reach an advanced level. I had to share this because it’s so fantastic. These are some truly inspiring quotes. My favorites are the last two.



#1 by Jé Maverick at December 28th, 2008
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Thanks for the pimping, Bobby. I really like your new layout.
#2 by Revellian at December 28th, 2008
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You’re welcome Jé! It is my hope that I send some new readers to your fine work
#3 by Jennifer at December 28th, 2008
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So much to unpack in this post — I really like the idea of adapting these ideas for writing. It works quite well.
And thank you for including my blog with such great company!
#4 by Revellian at December 28th, 2008
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You’re welcome Jennifer! Earlier, while writing my next fiction story, I stopped midpoint and wrote this before I forgot what had transpired in my brain. I think the best writing tips are usually not writing tips at all.
#5 by Angela at December 29th, 2008
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“Individuality seems to have a lot to do with being true to yourself. Being true to yourself is not always easy. In fact, you may have to teach yourself how to do it. Finding your “own voice” is not always pleasant. When your own “voice” emerges, you may not even recognize it.”
HA! How very true. I grapple with my own voice on a daily basis and actually find myself editing (muzzling) it. I am often surprised by my inner voice, and wonder what would happen if I let it all out? There would be repercussions for sure, and I am unsure how certain people in my life would feel about that! So I stay restrained, but I wonder how long before I explode with reckless abandon?
Great post Bobby!
#6 by Revellian at December 29th, 2008
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Hi Angela! I muzzle myself also–actually I have a baseball taped in my mouth lol! Letting it all out may alter your “voice” because you may see it differently once it’s revealed in totality. In fiction writing however, I cannot understand leaving all the good parts out. A little restraint and control is a good thing
#7 by Dover at December 29th, 2008
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I tend to be someone who sticks to a niche and writes more or less on topic most of the time. It can be hard to come up with stuff sometimes though, so I do, like you said, switch it up a little bit and write about something else I enjoy.
#8 by Angela at December 29th, 2008
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I’m learning how to express what I want to say so I won’t have to muzzle myself. That in itself seems to be an art!
#9 by Evelyn at December 29th, 2008
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I like reading what you write and I too have been in a huge slump. I keep promising people I am going to write more but it’s still not happening.
I must say that you missed a link. My favorite writing inspiration of late, I must say, came from these psychotic fingers!
I don’t know if that’s going to work in here but I’m hoping.
#10 by Revellian at December 29th, 2008
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@Dover: Some niches seem to be really narrow while others offer a wider scope. The only blogging niche that gets on my nerves is “making money on line”, I cannot read it, but I’m trying to quell my intense aversion.
@Angela: Indeed it is. I suspect there are thousands of hidden “arts” in everything. I suppose it could be called expansive expression?
@Evelyn: Ah…I know that feeling. I try to avoid promising what I will write about, but I do it anyway. I just write when I feel like it and take a break when I’m not feeling it. Thanks! I really loved writing that story, I was in a strange mood that day. I cannot force myself to write, but if I relax, it seems to come more easily:)
#11 by Melinda at December 29th, 2008
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Bobby–
I just wanted to stop by and wish you peace and happiness in the New Year–but then saw that you listed my post in your blog! What a wonderful Holiday surprise–and I thank you so much for your kind words.
I loved this post–and you should never make promises you can’t keep
— such as promising to not give blogging tips. This post was far more than that, though–
Take care–and may peace and light fill your New Year.
Melinda
#12 by Revellian at December 29th, 2008
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Thanks Melinda, and happy holidays to you! Yeah, I am more aware of those little promises. It’s like being aware of depression looming–but because you’re aware, you can lessen or perhaps prevent it altogether–hidden lessons everywhere.
May the brilliance of spiritual radiance fill your life with joy
#13 by teeni at December 29th, 2008
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Wow. Those are awesome tips – I can’t believe they originated in a Guitar book and that you were able to tweak them for application to writing! That just goes to show how good that book and the material really is. Thanks, Bobby.
I like how you keep it interesting over here.
#14 by Revellian at December 29th, 2008
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Thanks Teeni! Ultimately, I believe all arts are the same whether it be writing, music, painting, computer programming or cooking food (or even enjoying it). Artistic creativity is so wonderful, but not as wonderful as you!
#15 by Melissa Donovan at December 29th, 2008
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First, thanks for the link
Second, thanks for these fantastic tips. I’ve starred this post in my reader so I can come back to it and fully absorb each bit of advice. Awesome!
#16 by Revellian at December 29th, 2008
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Thank you Melissa, and you are more than welcome! You have a positive and supportive attitude and deserve lots of attention!
#17 by Miss Moneypenny at December 29th, 2008
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Hi Bobby!
There are no Cow Chips,
When you write Blogging Tips!
@”I love change.” : Is this the Change you can Believe In (sorry, my political comedy temptation was too great to resist!) ?
@ “somewhat pornographic” : you seem to enjoy writing erotic Dead Zone fiction!
I hear music every time I write… iTunes is my automatic reflex!
For me, the best time to write is when I am not writing… inspiration and ideas seem to flow faster when I am away from the keyboard!
Happy Holidays and a Happy Barack Bailout (for Jimmy) New Year!
#18 by Revellian at December 29th, 2008
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Thanks Debbie! With all the billions in bail out money pouring into corporate hands, I will come unglued if Obama doesn’t give a bailout to the people–I’ve come to the point where I really need one and soon…lol! I just reread my newer unpublished fiction post, and my eyes almost popped out. I am extremely apprehensive about releasing it. If Satan wrote a porn novel, it would be his favorite story. I need to think about things for a while hahaha! Happy holidays
#19 by paisley at December 29th, 2008
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thanks for the selma plug,,, if anyone deserves it it is definitely sweet selma……
#20 by Revellian at December 29th, 2008
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I agree Jodi, she so deserves to be read by everyone. Of course, so do you!
#21 by Lulu at December 29th, 2008
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Bobby I am almost always speechless when reading your blogs- well honestly some I have read are heavy LOL – blame my brain! but most of all are very uplifting and entertaining. I think I have not written as often as I used to. I have lost inspiration to write lately ( sigh)or perhaps this is more like I don’t have time to write? Thanks for the links – I will stop by to theirs.
#22 by Revellian at December 29th, 2008
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Thanks Lulu, it’s really great to see you! I’m not always inspired to write either, and sometimes I take long breaks where I don’t even look at my computer. Lately, I’ve been too tired to blog a lot, but I do when I’m up to it. I hope a wondrous shower of inspiration flows through your mind–I am sending you one!
#23 by Shemah at December 30th, 2008
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“Individuality seems to have a lot to do with being true to yourself. Being true to yourself is not always easy. In fact, you may have to teach yourself how to do it. Finding your “own voice” is not always pleasant. When your own “voice” emerges, you may not even recognize it.”
I love that quote. I think most everyone could relate to that, at one point or another. Love this post, Bobby. Hope you have a Happy New Year!
#24 by Revellian at December 30th, 2008
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Thank you so much Shemah! Everything we are seeking is right in front of us, but we often fail to see it. Have a Happy New Year too!
#25 by Jé Maverick at December 30th, 2008
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Happy birthday, Bobby!
#26 by Apple at December 30th, 2008
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It’s magically incredible. A guitar book can also inspire one in writing (blogging). Thank you so much for the changed up quotes. I feel much better after reading it (as recently, my blogging spirit is going down).
Thanks again. Last but not lest, happy birthday and happy new year, Bobby
#27 by Angela at December 30th, 2008
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I see that some are wishing you a Happy Birthday, so I want to join in (I’m humming the theme to the song)and say Happy Birthday! My son’s birthday is today also.
Have a blessed New Year.
#28 by Revellian at December 30th, 2008
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@Thank you Jé . . . another day older and deeper in debt haha!
@Thanks Apple, I hope your blogging spirit soars–I will come visit you! Thanks for the b-day wish!
@Angela: Thanks Angela! Actually, my birthday is tomorrow, New Years Eve. I can celebrate early. Have a blessed New Year too!
#29 by Selma at January 1st, 2009
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Wishing you (probably a little late) a very Happy Birthday. Thank you so much for the mention. You’re right about drawing blogging inspiration from life – I just step outside my door and there it is, something to write about. I am going to check out the other blogs you mentioned. Have a very Happy New Year!
#30 by candy at January 4th, 2009
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hey bobby
thanks so much for the mention. forgive my late response, but i’ve been offline for a while… busy with holidays (long, lazy days in the sun and such). great advice / tips here too. xx
#31 by Revellian at January 5th, 2009
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@Selma: Thank you! Life offers more ideas and inspiration than anyone could ever want. Happy new year to you!
@Candy: You’re welcome! Forgive my late reply too, I’ve been on a blogging hiatus doing home repairs and other fun. Happy new year!
#32 by meleah rebeccah at January 6th, 2009
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“I dropped to my knees and thanked God I don’t write only about a specific niche. I simply cannot do that. I am too scattered and have far too many thoughts to write only about one subject”
Me either. I would get too bored to easily. Some people have a real knack for it and even make money that way. but, its not for me.
“Write about something you’ve never even considered or that you fear.”
Hmmmmm…That’s a GREAT idea. I just may use that.
Oh and Selma of Selma in the City is one of the most fantastic writers ON THE INTERNET.
#33 by kyudo at January 7th, 2009
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it is truly dificult to be unique now days with millions of people all blogging. we try though
#34 by WaterLearner at January 16th, 2009
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Hey dude,
I just got to read this post and I simply love it!
Thanks!
#35 by Revellian at January 16th, 2009
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Wow it took me a while to reply…I apologize!
@Meleah: There’s a reason I say to write what you fear writing about…I will explain in an upcoming article. Yes! I am extremely happy to have met Selma, I really admire her work and spirit.
@Kyudo: Trying to be unique will only make you like everyone else. Don’t try…just be expansive and passionate.
@Karen: Thank you, that makes my day!
#36 by waterlearner at January 16th, 2009
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This is really going to make your day alright. I was just reading through this post this morning in my office (shoooo! don’t tell my boss).
I am here again at home to read it again. Cos’ this post is worth reading carefully.
Have a Great Weekend, dude!
#37 by Revellian at January 16th, 2009
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You are a naughty girl Karen! Hahaha! Shhh…I’ll keep it to myself. Wow…you visited me again today. That makes my whole weekend a million times better–it is such a pleasure to have my good friend here. You have a great weekend too!