Jennifer, author of Writing To Survive has featured me as her February Blog of the Month–please check out the article, it is wonderful. Go visit her and read her work. She is truly a great writer with a distinctive style overflowing in heart, tears and depth–something rare in the blogosphere.
As I told her, I’ve always felt like a black sheep blogger. I don’t feel like I fit in any where–in any cliques and so on. There are many different writing based communities and little groups of writers, but I don’t feel welcome in their inner circles. Many fiction writers are snobbish and pretentious, have stilted opinions of what good is and why some work is garbage. I’m more open–meaning I read all genres and can appreciate everything from romance, erotic noir to horror to sentimental stories of personal triumph and all between. The more fearless of ridicule a writer is, the more I like them. I say write unapologetically regardless of fallout–and your readers will gather.
In high school and college, my literature professors degraded me while bathing other writers in limelight–not because they were skilled, but because of what they wrote about. It really hurt. I was taught that a descriptive sex scene, extreme profanity, first person perspective of murder or cannibalism is both immoral and automatically brands it rubbish–makes it trashy and low class. I rebelled . . . did I ever rebel.
I became an extremist writer. I will never write to be popular.
I often write things other people are afraid to write or disgusted by . . . probably because society says it’s wrong in many respects. I’m really fortunate to have friends and fans who actually read my more questionable content–that appreciate my craft and how much care I place in each sentence, each individual word–even if the story is sickening or terrifying. I only know one thing: I love to write (and read).
Thank you Jennifer from the bottom of my heart for shining a little limelight on little ol’ me. It means a lot and I will never forget it.



#1 by Jennifer at February 2nd, 2009
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I was really happy to highlight your blog. If only literature professors knew (or cared, I suppose) about the damage they can do. I’m glad you’ve kept with it.
I think I have more profound thoughts, but am having a hard time pulling them from my worn-out brain (very long day with the kid, who had to be pulled away from me, sobbing, in prep for bedtime. And I’m up in a minute or two for my portion of the bedtime routine.).
Thank you, too, for that wonderful description of my blog!
#2 by Revellian at February 2nd, 2009
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Hi Jennifer! Well, I’m not nearly as angry as I once was . . . I suppose I’m not angry at all. Anger wears you out and takes a lot of effort.
Profound thoughts are overrated anyway. My brain is tired too. And no matter if anyone else cares or not, you made my life a little happier. You are more than welcome, I really meant what I said
#3 by ~willow~ at February 2nd, 2009
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congrats on the limelight – you certainly deserve it
#4 by Revellian at February 2nd, 2009
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Thanks Willow! I don’t even know if anyone deserves anything…but it’s nice
#5 by Evelyn at February 3rd, 2009
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You guys are both on my radar so it all works for me! You’re both deserving of accolades for what you do and for the inspiration you provide.
Some people are just gifted with the use of the English vocabulary and you just happen to be one of them. Much of what I’ve read has left a lasting impression, albeit not always a comfortable one. I think your blog is terrorific!
#6 by Revellian at February 3rd, 2009
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Thank you Evelyn! To me, a gift for writing is not a gift–it is decision fulfilled in action. I believe anyone can become skilled and develop their own natural voice. The gift is willingness to persevere and work hard. Terrorific is a cool term!
#7 by Selma at February 3rd, 2009
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You definitely deserve the recognition. Not only are you an extremely talented writer, but you have a good heart. Your sincerity shines through in everything you write. Keep up the good work!!
#8 by Revellian at February 3rd, 2009
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Thank you Selma! Having heart and caring is more important than anything else. I am just a beginning student in writing and I always will be
#9 by Shinade at February 3rd, 2009
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How wonderful bobby I am very happy for you. I can’t think of anyone more deserving than you to be highlighted anywhere and everywhere.
I am a fan of your writing and as a friend there are none to compare too!
I will head over right now and read the article!:-)
#10 by Revellian at February 3rd, 2009
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Thanks Jackie! I’d probably hide if I were highlighted everywhere LOL! I like to remain low key but some praise is lovely. These days between writing my books, my blog, working full time and trying to have a life–it’s almost impossible to be the friend I’m supposed to be to all my blogging friends. I wish I had the time to visit everyone everyday–but even if I don’t, I am still your true friend
#11 by Candy at February 4th, 2009
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wonderful
you deserve it!
#12 by Revellian at February 4th, 2009
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Thanks Candy! It’s nice to be appreciated every now and again
#13 by teeni at February 4th, 2009
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Nice job by Jennifer! You deserve a little bloggy love, Bobby! Soak it up!
#14 by Matt at February 4th, 2009
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I think I owe Jennifer some thanks too, for pointing me in your direction. You’ve made it to my Google Reader list (a dubious honor, naturally), but I’m fascinated by the little I’ve seen so far of your thoughts on blogging culture.
Looking forward to what you’ve got coming!
#15 by Revellian at February 4th, 2009
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@Teeni: Thank you Teeni! It really brightened my dreary day! It is very nice
@Matt: Thanks! It’s great to meet you Matt. I think too many bloggers are writing the same stuff and I sometimes get irritated, but overall I still love blogging. I will come visit you!
#16 by Genie Princess at February 5th, 2009
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ALAKAZAM! GP is here, how are u Bobby?
:):)
#17 by Genie Princess at February 5th, 2009
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Congrats Bobby! That is really nice of Jennifer to feature you and a very good choice too I must say!
#18 by Genie Princess at February 5th, 2009
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You are a terrific writer Bobby, don’t ever feel otheriwse! Love and hugs!
#19 by Revellian at February 5th, 2009
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Thanks Marzie! I do have a long way to go in writing and will never be satisfied with anything I ever write–it’s much more fun that way LOL!
#20 by Lydia at February 7th, 2009
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I’m another here by way of Jennifer’s stunning description of your blog. Came first to this post and have no idea, really, what I’m in for as I venture into your placeholder in the world. But I do look forward to finding out.
#21 by Revellian at February 7th, 2009
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It’s wonderful to meet you Lydia! It is an honor to have you here. I hope you find something you like
Jennifer is such a sweetie!
#22 by floreta at February 16th, 2009
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hi, i came here through jennifer and will certainly check in periodically.
“I often write things other people are afraid to write or disgusted by . . . probably because society says it’s wrong in many respects.” great!
i also feel a bit of a black sheep. i’m not exactly poetry. not exactly fiction.. not exactly photography.. i’m a bit of everything, etc.
i admire writers who pave their own way. even though i know there is really no such thing as originality. ;P i’d like to pretend.
#23 by Revellian at February 16th, 2009
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Thanks Floreta, it’s really nice to meet you!
While it’s extremely difficult to come up with an “original” idea–only variations of other ideas–it is possible to have a highly original voice in writing. For example: we all know Elvis’ voice when he sings–and people love to imitate him. It’s distinctive and easy to identify. A writer can do the same thing. It’s really the only thing we have that can be original