We live in a world of shallow ideals, cheapened values . . . even amidst world wide recession, we remain narcissistic, superficial and foolish–reflected in our blogging, news, TV and daily habits. I’ve become almost livid over blogging and all the popular themes so prevalent right now.
The world is crumbling apart and corporations expect us to guy every new product, adorning our pathetic lives in neon colored trinkets like new phones, lap tops, cars, clothes and so forth. It’s amazing to consider billions of people worship Christ–a man who wore rags, walked the land barefoot and had no job; but are greed filled narcissists themselves–the opposite of what they’re supposed to hold dear. In today’s world, we would call Jesus a homeless bum. I would argue the most disingenuous people on earth are televangelists flying around on private jets, living in mansions, eating fine cuisine prepped by a master chef and wearing thousand dollar suits. Show me a televangelist (and I mean every last one of them) and I’ll show you a liar . . . even Joel Osteen. A true man of God would own no personal belongings.
- Our blogs are only as good as our newest post.
- We are no more than our last paycheck
- Our lives are defined by our cell phones.
- What brand of cell phone defines you?
- We popularize TV shows based on how hot the actors are.
Just this week, I watched some daytime blather where a gold digging woman gave her recession tips for dating men. She said:
- Do a financial background check
- Does he own one or more houses and are they paid in full?
- Does he own his own business?
- How many cars does he own?
- Most importantly, what is his credit rating?
You would think in the crux of global financial meltdown, people would become more frugal, less materialistic and less narcissistic–but the opposite is true. Love and integrity are becoming forgotten ideas. We are becoming more superficial and falsely claim to care about humanity–it’s the biggest lie of modern times.
I have hardly suffered at all during this recession. I use an old cell phone–ugly and gray–and will use it until it rots. I drive a used car and wouldn’t buy a new one if I were a billionaire. I live within my means and happily without the decor. The truth is, you don’t need all that crap to be somebody. A person’s image is the least important part of that person.
- We live in a society defined by 10 second sound bytes.
- We blame the world’s problems on George W. Bush (while letting thousands of other corrupted pieces of human trash continue operating in impunity)
- We believe another man named Obama is our savior.
Yes we can? I would argue no we can’t–not until we crush our own government and rebuild it from scratch. I will not refrain from criticizing the current administration even if you hate me. I will say I’m disgusted with the newest bailout–just another spending package to benefit the government, not the people.
Sometimes, the best action is no action. We don’t need every new electronic gadget. We don’t need to worry about fashion or our status. We don’t need that new loan. Above all, we don’t need our government enslaving future generations in endless debt because they have to do something. Doing something, sometimes only makes things worse–like spending another trillion dollars we don’t have. Wait, that’s right . . . our grandchildren will pay for it.
One thing really gets under my skin: the idea that to get society rolling strong again, trillions of dollars must be pumped into banks so people can borrow more money! The last thing we need to do is take out new loans . . . for crying out loud. Modern politics is so over-intellectualized–especially among political bloggers and columnists trying to sound smart while alienating the masses who can’t understand any of it.
I hope Obama does well. I must tell you I am neither liberal or conservative–I just want honesty. I’m sick of people treating Obama like a rock star. Please stop the crap and treat him like the president–and hold his feet to the fire, especially if you’re liberal.
To reflect our own shallow narcissism, let’s look at all the things not important about the president:
- His likability
- His winning smile
- His magnetic personality
- How cute his kids are
- How elegant his wife dresses
It is not the president’s job to be liked, admired, worshiped, swooned over or any other nonsensical B.S. His job is to be the president . . . period. He will only do well after people turn on him. That is how leadership works–how he responds under the upcoming fire. I hope he responds well. Low ratings will show his true ability. Leadership is earned not given. He cannot be a great president until AFTER his term is up. It is our job to make sure he does well. Endless praise will never help him.
Do you see the recurring themes in this article? A few days ago, I had a fellow blogger ask me, “Wow . . . you’re still using that same old header on your blog. Why don’t you change it?”
I don’t change it because IT’S THE LEAST FREAKING IMPORTANT PART OF MY BLOG!!! My blog is not defined by its header. It’s defined by what I write. But I really love my header, so I shall keep it for now.
I would love to see a president say, “You people of the public are ignorant and so are we. We all suck. We must first blame ourselves before becoming successful.”
We need a reality check. Earlier I read some drivel about personal branding and it hit me like a nuclear inferno as it does every day. We as people–because of technology–are becoming brands, not people. Eventually, we won’t need our brains–we can just Google it. Google will teach you how to pee, tie your shoes and have better sex. I am not a brand. I am Bobby Revell and I’m tired of your bullshit.
This article is meant to be uneloquent. No fancy thesaurus words. No condescending reflections of historical contrast. Just plain language we can all understand. I hope I’ve been simplistic enough. Have a good day.



#1 by David at February 6th, 2009
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I agree with just about everything you’ve said there.
As for the “personal branding”, I wonder where the line between building a reputation and personal branding is? Is “personal branding” wrong if you have the skills to back it up?
I’m writing my own blog, and in my mind, I am trying to brand myself somewhat. Why am I doing this? Mainly because for reasons I will no go into on a personal comment, I am stuck in a hole where I cannot work, and if I didn’t reach out to the internet how I am, nobody would know about me and what I can do, and what I think. I hope, that when my fortunes change and I get out of this hole, my presence on the internet will pave the way for me to have a better life.
What do you think?
Best wishes,
David
#2 by Revellian at February 6th, 2009
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Hi David! As soon as you write your first post and have your first reader, your “brand identity” is already defined. There’s nothing wrong with building a reputation and branding yourself–but some people take it too far. Being a real person is the best brand–and that’s not a brand at all–just personal integrity and honesty. One of the most successful bloggers with a personal brand is Darren Rowse of ProBlogger–a real guy who is really nice. On the other hand, he will never be as huge as TechCrunch–a highly impersonal site. All the biggest sites are impersonal and treat readers much like a department store treats customers. To me, what you write far outweighs anything else
#3 by Anastasia at February 6th, 2009
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I’ve always been one to believe that successful politicians (success being a measure of popularity and other superficial things) are those that have charisma. Without it. Forget it. It’s the reason why Bush lasted two terms and then, toward the last two years, people had had enough of him because none of his objectives succeeded, so it’s a huge risk to take to proclaim success and fail miserably. For Bush, it was the ‘war on terror’ which became a war of terror that displayed hypocrisy like nothing else; its absurd to proclaim one’s nation as a president as being fair, democratic and so on, while incarcerating people without a charge in Cuba to get away from federal laws, but that is what he did. Now if Obama succeeds and closes down Guatanamo, and ceases the CIA freaks then that’ll be a good thing…but yeah, it’s one thing to say that, another thing to actually put it in practice. Let’s just say Bobby, I don’t think Obama will make many friends within agencies like the CIA.
I agree with other things you say about image, however over the last few years, I’ve realised that’s how economies are run. All profits are based on image because all products are sold on the basis of establishing image, which is unfortunate. It’s like this entire Apple phenomenon; Just because I have an iPod, doesn’t mean I am an Apple fiend. When I bought my iPod, I only used the white earplugs at home, because the more I used them on the street, I noticed other people using the same, and it looked like a huge Apple cult of white earplugs. Mind you, the white earplugs are crap. They break down in months and have to be replaced, I didn’t replace them; I bought German made earplugs instead LOL.
I don’t know if Google is as bad as Facebook. Facebook has become a horrible brand, a major commercial vehicle/rip off. When major advertising began appearing on profiles, including mine, I removed my profile. I wasn’t interested in a CEO earning profit based on my profile. I can’t stand that nerdy dweeb.
#4 by Anastasia at February 6th, 2009
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Hey Bobby…
I forgot. With blogging…during the times I’d get sick and tired of coming across narcissistic blog crapola on various subjects, I thought of starting a blog titled: MEH!
#5 by Revellian at February 6th, 2009
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Hi Ana! I totally agree with Obama and his views on Guantanamo and yeah, that would be great. I am largely anti-militaristic and believe most war could be prevented. Iraq is still an atrocity and should be remembered as a sick mistake–too many innocent people died for no good reason, I don’t care what the neocons believe; let them do the killing and fighting themselves and they’d never want war again.
I think the over-zealous push for technological advancement and companies to have a new version every year is crippling, not helping the world. I have an Ipod too, but I don’t buy a new one every year. The desire for new products exceeds our own capability to buy them. Perhaps society would do better to coast for a while. The constant push forward is actually holding us back. We need economic equilibrium.
I agree about Facebook. It started out great and became 100 times worse than MySpace. The endless bullshit apps are enough to make you scream. At least with Twitter, what you see is what you get: simple mindless time wasting and no frills–I hope it stays like that. As soon as it becomes more than it is, I will no longer use it.
Hahaha…that sounds like a fun blog. I want to start one that brutally criticizes and attacks bloggers and pokes fun at ass kissing commenters–on the big blogs of course
#6 by Miragi at February 6th, 2009
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Is it ass-kissy enough if I tell you YOU ROCK my world!!
You did nail me on one…yes, yes, I make LOST popular because I wait with baited breath each week to swoon over Sawyer
Other than that, I’m with you. I drive a car that I paid cash for 4 yrs ago….I have no cell phone, no cable, no high speed internet (YET)…no bells and whistles and I may be the only wife on the planet who has a husband who tells her that she needs to go buy some more clothes for herself…..mainly because he probably gets sick of seeing me wear things til they fall apart
It’s too bad that Obama didn’t devise a plan to bail US out instead of the banks….I am kind of steamed about spending millions/billions on delaying the whole digital switch just because 6 mil people couldn’t get their shit together to get a new tv or a FREE freaking converter box over the past two years or so?
Thank you for being you, and for not cowtowing to the blogging masses!
Mi
#7 by Grog at February 6th, 2009
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It’s my first time here. Very nice. This post is a bit on the negative, but so true and I agree with everything…so maybe its just reality not negativity.
I’ll be back.
#8 by David at February 6th, 2009
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I know what you both mean about Facebook. I have two rules which keep Facebook worthwhile for me. 1) Block every single application invite, without question. 2) Enter a minimum of personal information. Doing those, has kept Facebook a tolerable experience for me, and it has been second to none for keeping in touch with people I’d otherwise loose touch with. Even that can work against you though, as I’ve had a few people I didn’t want to hear from contact me!
#9 by Jollyjo at February 6th, 2009
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Bobby…I don’t think I have read a better rant anywhere.
So many great snippets in there it’s not funny….my favorite “We believe another man named Obama is our savior.”
#10 by Revellian at February 6th, 2009
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@Miragi: Hey, I swoon over certain actresses too, and there’s nothing wrong with that–but it gets a little out of hand sometimes. By praising stars so much, are we proclaiming the rest of the world ugly? I dumped a gf because she worshiped Brad Pitt so intensely, telling me in all honesty she would sleep with him if she ever had the chance and wished I was more like him…hahaha! A friend of mine lost his house because of keeping up with the Jonses. He bought 13 cell phones last year–all more expensive than the last. Yes, Obama must give the people a freaking bail out as he said he would. He still has time to do it.
@Grog: Exactly. This is not meant to be negative at all…just honest.
@David: Good points about facebook and I’ve yet to adjust permissions or subdivide people into groups. I will as soon as anyone in my family actually joins haha!
@Adrian: Yes…he’s not our savior, he’s our president and should be respected as a president…not a rockstar.
#11 by Evelyn at February 6th, 2009
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I don’t know if I should laugh, join you on your soap box, hug you, or just sit down, drink my tea and wait to see what you do next. LOL! For the record, I never did like Bush, never voted for him, hated his smug smirks while Florida was recounting and fussing with their screwed up ballots and I still don’t like him now and will never say he was a good president.
In Obama’s case, I’m sorry, he’s just near and dear to us over here. That aside, I loved it when he said, on camera, “I screwed up.” As long as he stays honest I’ll still back him up. The media is not going to let up on him and I think I can safely say that we’re all secretly holding our breath and hoping he pulls it off. I don’t quite know what “it” is but we’ll just keep trying to survive while he tries to figure out what “it” is. That’s his job.
You can hate him if you want to. You’re entitled to your opinion and, as long as you keep sharing those opinions, we’ll still love you anyway.
I change my cell phone when the company’s billing gets too expensive and I take the free one without the added bells and whistles. I don’t have time for bells and whistles. I hate gold-digging women; I seem to have a passion for blue-collar men myself, or so I’ve discovered. There’s more to a man (to a person) than what’s in their wallet. “What’s in your wallet?” (Sorry — I just had to say that.)
Here’s another one for the record: you don’t need eloquent words to sound intelligent or make a valid point. I enjoyed reading this as much as your other posts. In some way, maybe more. There’s a sense of discovering the person in posts like this and I like that. I’m weird like that.
Let’s see, is that an ass-kissing comment? Let us know about any new blogger-bashing blog. I’ve got my own mental list of blogs that are too full of their own self worth. I just want to “hear” normal citizens (or the not-so-normal ones), share, and talk back. Sorry this got so long. Ooops!
#12 by Revellian at February 6th, 2009
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@Evelyn: I do not hate Obama. I was a little apprehensive about writing this as some folks may take it that way. What I don’t like is the new stimulus package…it is a joke and it’s exactly what he said he wouldn’t do–the opposite of what he said he would. His mistake on Tom Daschle is no big deal. I like Obama…but that’s the thing. Liking him is irrelevant, it’s what he does with the most important job in the world that counts. I agree with many of his plans but he had better get into gear and deliver…with a quickness. I would argue that not only was Bush a horrible president…but the democratic congress he had was the most corrupted in history and many of the current economic problems are equally their fault–now we have that same democratic congress. They will hurt, not help Obama. What I’m saying Evelyn, is the entire government is so corrupted, no leader can repair it. It may look a little better, but will not be “fixed”. The president doesn’t run America. It is owned by International banks…they own us…and that’s not some insane conspiracy theory. It is true.
There’s nothing wrong with owning nice things, it’s when it becomes important that things go rotten. Our government should give the people that trillion dollars…we have been shafted by corrupted government far too long. Thanks for the lengthy comment
#13 by JC at February 6th, 2009
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Fantastic post Bobby, one of my all time favorites from you. In a nutshell, frugality and modesty are the most despised terms today. But I have a strange feeling that issues like these will gain on importance increasingly, as the (rough) times are rushing in. People who can manage to live modestly, and with an down-to-earth attitude, will have bigger chances to maintain happier lives.
#14 by teeni at February 6th, 2009
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Sarcasm is sometimes defined as being the “lowest form of wit,” and that actually explains a lot to me as to why there are so many sarcastic humor blogs and rants out there. And even though there are a myriad of such similar blogs, they do seem to gather followings because they really are simplistic and therefore, more people can understand and relate to them. But you are right that our society does tend to focus on such shallow things that don’t even related to the important issues. It doesn’t help that our own media does the same and labels things as “news” that really aren’t.
#15 by Revellian at February 6th, 2009
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@J.C. There’s no such thing as modesty in today’s world…it’s all flair and glam–something I thought died in the 1980s. While Americans believe they are suffering, they have it freaking good. I believe most of this financial crisis is blown out of proportion and the government continues to instill fear into the public. America’s problem is not necessarily the government, it is the people that are to blame. I will survive unless they kill me. Thanks
@Teeni: Bloggers clump together in cliques for the most part and I still belong to no particular clique. The truth is, I don’t take all the things I said in this post too seriously, but I needed to say them. I do love sarcasm, but I love truth even more. Of course, there’s flip side to everything I’ve written here and I could easily take an opposite opinion. This to me is a filler post between fiction stories hahahaha!
#16 by Dentist Chicago at February 6th, 2009
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Unfortunately, personal branding is becoming more and more important to obtain jobs. How do you get past all the built in filters and stand out? Personal branding is also inevitable. No matter what you do, your character, your opinions, the way you dress, the way you talk, the way you write, everything is going to be added up to define your “brand”. No it is not branding in the traditional sense but it still defines who you are. Some say that is reputation or what not so maybe branding is when you take building your reputation too far.
As for Obama, he’s talked a mighty talk, now he must walk the mighty walk. Great, he says he has all the answers. Now it is time for him to fulfill his expectations.
I got the impression from your post that everyone should just be happy to exist (I am over simplifying for the sake of time). To coexist and just be is not enough for most humans and I believe it shouldn’t be. What is the purpose of life with out eternal progression. Yes, people take things too far but still.
#17 by Nina c. at February 6th, 2009
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i’m sensing some hostility…… lol but your right in just about everything you said. great post!
#18 by verite parlant at February 6th, 2009
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Mindless trivia sells. I see more people combing google looking for nothingness than I see looking for substance. That doesn’t mean I’ll post forever on nothingness b/c that would bore me. But there’s a reason we love escapist crap. Uh, we want to escape.
Nevertheless, it bugs me that people writing about Cheerios vs. Frosted flakes have more comments than I would writing about hate speech or the black guy being voted in as RNC chair or our energy crisis. But if I post on Michelle Obama’s gown, my blog blows up. It’s the way of the world.
#19 by Revellian at February 6th, 2009
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@Dentist Chicago: Yes…simply being alive should be enough to make us joyful–everything else is icing on the cake; but we’ve become a society of all icing with no cake LOL! The real problems in our world are ignored while we concentrate on window dressing. Obama like all presidents made too many unrealistic promises. He has a lot of work to do and I am behind him, not against him. I want him held to the highest level of scrutiny, especially by his most ardent supporters.
@Nina: Haha…no hostility, just a little irritation. Actually, I am in a great mood today! Thanks
@Verite Parlant: I agree, we all need to escape and this is not indicative of everything I write. Yeah, I understand about the cheerios thing. Some blogs can write about why they hate the zipper on a pair of Levis and get 500 comments from hordes of returning readers. I really don’t judge mindless posts as many of mine are extremely mindless. I’m the black kettle too. The fact is, people have a love/hate affair with celebrities–that’s just the way it is. I should write an entertainment post about actresses I wanna have sex with LOL!
#20 by Aaron Cook at February 6th, 2009
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Recession tips for dating men. LOL, how pathetic!
I’m definitely with you on this one Bobby. I’m somewhat of a minimalist as well. I have a basic cell phone without the multitude of needless expensive crap that the cell phone industry tries to shove down our throats…trying to make us think we must have these bells and those whistles, for if we don’t, we’re missing out and inferior to all the other sheeple around us.
I don’t even have cable…canceled that shit years ago when I realized what a waste of money it was. I simply watch everything online…news, TV shows, whatever. And no drivel for me. I stick to the stuff that keeps my brain working and keeps me questioning everything I encounter. If it’s pushing an agenda or lacking balanced facts and points of view, I simple move on.
Oh yeah, and don’t even get me started on the bailout (socialism for the rich) bullshit. Or Obama. I’ve blogged about them a lot recently as I’m so ticked off it’s not even funny. If we want to stimulate the economy, then give the money to the people, NOT the banks and crooked scoundrels who started this whole mess. We’ve seen how well THAT has worked so far.
Instead, give the money straight to the people (it was our money anyway) so the people can begin to pay off their debts! The money will then end up in the banks…and then they’ll have their liquidity!…And people will be able to afford to spend again. Problem solved.
Sad to say, but at this point I think we’re doomed. Obama isn’t going to “change” anything…and he never really intended to.
#21 by Revellian at February 6th, 2009
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Hi Aaron! I feel so fortunate to have been poor, homeless and almost starving to death. I’ve been there and it’s no fun. I recovered and though I’m still not doing great, I do have some nice things. I appreciate what I have but it means nothing to me. I cannot care about “things”.
I agree 100%. The government should give every American citizen a bailout…at least $100,000+ and I will leave Obama alone. I am so sick of government stealing money from its own citizens to profit government. That’s what Bush did. Obama promised to help the people…well I am not going to hold my breath. Liberals should be the most angry of all people right now. Go read the new spending package…it is beyond ridiculous. Less than 3% is going to the people and that won’t be until 2011!!! Funding banks will only cripple us further…PERIOD
#22 by Francis Scudellari at February 6th, 2009
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Hi Bobby,
I’m actually of pretty much the same mind. This bailout really scares and upsets me. I just saw Naomi Klein speak locally and she completely dissected what a complete giveaway to the rich corporations/banks it actually is. I like and campaigned for Obama, but one man certainly cannot change a corrupt system. If there is to be change, it will have to come from a groundswell demanding a complete restructuring of our society. We Americans have been too long in a coma regarding the state of our democracy … sedated into a stupor by shallow material comforts. I’d love to see more people writing these kinds of posts.
#23 by Revellian at February 6th, 2009
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Thanks Francis! As we know, Obama didn’t write the stimulus package. Even if he personally despises it, he cannot say it no matter how honest he is. You are right, it must involve us all and we must all demand change. I have personally written dozens of senators and made quite a few phone calls–it’s really all I can do.
Just so you and all my readers know, I do not oppose the government helping the people–just let me know when they actually do.
On corruption: Take Rob Blagoyevich for instance. Sure he’s corrupted, but he’s also a scapegoat for many other corrupted politicians. That’s how it’s done…just like with Bush. Bush is not to blame for everything–especially with the Iraq war. It was a group effort of many individuals. When things got bad, people left him standing there alone and took no blame themselves. I’m with you Francis. I’ve read your views and agree. We must all work together. We cannot throw blame or success at the feet of one man or political ideology.
#24 by Jennifer at February 6th, 2009
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Every night I pray at my shrine to Obama. Not that He, in all His Wisdom, fixes the economy or pulls us out of Iraq, but that He makes sure that my family can continue to live in the lifestyle to which we are accustomed. I am also praying to Him tonight that the stomach flu which is attacking our household be cured overnight.
I agree with much of what you write here. I am a huge fan of Obama, but hardly think he is the second coming (though the fact that he has some frills, including charisma, is a bonus). I also grew up pretty poor and don’t tend to spend a lot of money on stuff, though I do feel like a drain sometimes, not having a job by choice, being able to stay at home with my son. Or maybe I just feel pretty damn lucky, which I am. But that doesn’t have anything to do with mindless consumption.
Jennifer, coming out of the sickness murk to finally comment
#25 by Revellian at February 6th, 2009
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Hi Jennifer! I will pray for your family to recover from stomach flu. I kinda figured you grew up poor. and I know what that means. I also know how wonderful it is to live in comfort; having food, a warm home, love and all those good little things making our lives worth living.
Hey…I’m a fan too, but he has a lot of work to do. It’s not just him, it’s the entire H.O.R. and senate–and we the people. America still has it good regardless of the current crisis. Like most people, I’m afraid of losing it all–though I’ve lot it all before and recovered. The way I see it, all Americans are lucky; lucky to live in a free society where we can do anything we like.
I know this article is quite scathing, but I had to write it. I still have great hope for us and the entire world. As my mother told me when I moved in with a girl and her 2 year old–love doesn’t pay the bills, but it is nice. I feel the same about Obama’s charisma; it’s nice, but won’t solve our problems. I hope and pray we all succeed
#26 by Eric "Speedcat Hollydale" at February 7th, 2009
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You tackled quite a few subjects here Bobby. It was a bit like talking with you at a coffee shop.
(That’s a good thing BTW)
Government and heath care have a similar approach. Instead of fixing the cause, they keep patching holes on an old boat. For instance, if someone has high blood pressure and heart problems, we now “medicate”. The true cure is to stop eating crap and get off the couch. Ahhhh, but wait, that sounds harsh and there is no money in it! Government is the same. The fix is simple, but not popular and again, “No money in it”.
Chop out all the garbage and get rid of excess. We are trying to medicate a dying economy and people with popular easy fix BS. Just more fuel to the fire. You can put a match out by pouring gas on it, but what is left behind is ready to ignite a far worse scenario.
If I run across one more Obama is the savior and cure of all things one more time my head is going to blow off
Speaking about saviors, the Television minestries are far out of control. I cannot believe that there are people that pray on the innocent victoms of life, and promise the Lords’s watchful hand for a purchase of a prayer cloth. They also fake spiritual healing on a daily basis. These people are pure and absolute evil hiding behind a veil of divinity. As you eluded to, can you imagine Jesus calling out to viewers for cash to read his new book?
One more parting thought. Seems that a majority of the public has become so infused with the idea that tangible items create their image, that they are willing to take on massive credit loads, buy houses that are well out of their means, and finance a new car for six years. Remember when buying a car meant a down payment, a three year loan, and well planned credit portfolio? Seems we have become an “I deserve” society, not an “I will earn” society. How many times have you seen someone whining away about what they do not have as they Twitter 12 hours a day every day. Where is the logic !!!!!
#27 by Eric "Speedcat Hollydale" at February 7th, 2009
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[ps] I like your header …. ha haaaaaaa !!!!!
Someone told me my blog was childish and stupid. Goofy and light-hearted, yes. When I read that comment I laughed at the anger someone could derive from merely looking at a web page. Maybe I better write some how to make adsense money posts.
#28 by Revellian at February 7th, 2009
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Hello Mr.Speedy! Certainly you and I are not economists, but we are informed. It doesn’t take a genius to understand how things work these days with so much information at hand. I really don’t support a stimulus, but if they’re gonna do it, give the cash directly to the people. Many would squander it on new flat screens and crack cocaine, but I would pay all my bills off and repair my credit in full. I need a bail out hahaha!
On the flip side of owning nice things–we earn and buy–enjoying life’s little pleasures. But we often get used to having and lose appreciation. There’s nothing wrong with having, as long as it doesn’t spoil us–and many Americans are spoiled rotten–especially those rich preachers. I say tax religion and do it now!
I’m happy with my used truck. It’s in good shape and looks just fine–saving me thousands of dollars in buying something new. I will drive it until it goes no more. I will then buy another used vehicle!
#29 by Eric "Speedcat Hollydale" at February 7th, 2009
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I agree, and understand the pride in ownership. It is hard to have pride in something owned by a bank, or credit company though.
My old Camry still runs pretty well, you want to race down Main Street?? We could bet our blog titles !
#30 by Revellian at February 7th, 2009
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And that’s why I pay cash or do without. I’m waiting for Obama to legalize pot so I can put my green thumb to use and become the THC Tycoon LOL!!!
My truck isn’t fast enough to race and this ol’ blog is all I have, but we can race for a bucket of fried chicken, mashed potatoes w/gravy and country biscuits
#31 by Jane Doe at February 7th, 2009
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Though I don’t always agree with your politics (and that’s ok, it makes life more interesting!) I do agree with a lot of what you said. People are too obsessed with stuff like material things and projecting a good image and, if you ask me, celebrities. If I see one more blog discussing every inane detail of the life of their favorite celebrities I will rupe.
This recession hasn’t affected me much either, except my grocery bill. I’ve recently been budgeting and actually have had more money (not a lot more, but enough to pay my bills on my own) the last six months than I’ve had in years. I was even able to purchase gifts for my family for Christmas this year without borrowing a cent, something I’ve never been able to do. I do not have a lot of things (except books, most of which were used when I bought them), I do not need a lot of things. I’ve had the same used car (a 1995 Geo Prizm) for 9 years and I only buy a new cell phone when mine breaks. The most technologically advanced item I own is an iPod Nano that was given to me for Christmas last year and I will use it until it dies. I don’t need the newest version every year. I’ve found that the more things a person has, the more they stress over losing them. And, the more a person focuses on things, and obtaining more things, the less time they have for the ones they love. I’ve also found that the more material things a person owns, the emptier they seem to feel. There are not enough things in the world to fill the gaping hole within them.
If more people focused more of their time and energy on being better people (not just looking like better people) and truly caring about their fellow human beings instead of endlessly collecting every material thing they can, this world would be a much better place.
#32 by Angela at February 7th, 2009
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I loved your article. I wish I had more time to comment. We have been super busy in the new house and I haven’t had the time to visit my favorite sites and catch up.
#33 by paisley at February 7th, 2009
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when i was in the dating pool,, my first question was does he have a job?? so i guess i am way left behind according to today’s standards,, or maybe my response was standard enough to withstand the passing of time… who knows….
#34 by Descartes at February 7th, 2009
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Nice rant.
For me, blogs have never been the Speaker’s Corner of the internet-more like a small stage off in a corner of a Ren Fair. Maybe someone will stop by for a moment, maybe not. Either way, the show goes on.
Perez Hilton is to blame for a lot of less than intellectual blogs. He took a crap media blog and is now showing up on TV on a regular basis, and I assume, getting paid to do so. Not all of us want to get rich blogging, but it sure would be nice.
So we talk about silly crap. If it were easier to tap into that Televangelist Con, I think more of us would do it. In the mean time, blogging seems easy enough.
#35 by meleah rebeccah at February 7th, 2009
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“You would think in the crux of global financial meltdown, people would become more frugal, less materialistic and less narcissistic–but the opposite is true. Love and integrity are becoming forgotten ideas. We are becoming more superficial and falsely claim to care about humanity–it’s the biggest lie of modern times.”
Yep. Scary Isn’t it?
*shudders*
#36 by Shameka at February 7th, 2009
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Hey! Are you living in my head? I was just discussing your first list of bulleted points with a friend of mine. Thank you for confirming that I am not alone with my sentiments.
#37 by Revellian at February 8th, 2009
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@Jane: Yes, my grocery bill has gone up too–they are getting high aren’t they? I don’t think our politics are really that much different–I’m extremely liberal on many issues, but don’t trust politicians regardless of their leaning. I’m probably being too hard on Obama, he’s only been in office a week so I’ll shut up now hahaha! The truth is, happiness doesn’t come from money or status and I wish everyone felt that way.
@Angela: Howdy stranger! Enjoy your new home and I’ll be by soon (to your blog LOL!)
@Paisley: Having a job…even having a great job has never helped me in the way of love. But I haven’t given up!
@Descartes: Perez Hilton has made a career of exploiting people’s problems–just a useless blog. Thanks for the nice rant vote!
@Meleah: I’m shuddering too!
@Shameka: I could be living in your head. Sometimes I feel like my life is somebody’s bad dream hahaha!
#38 by Lydia at February 8th, 2009
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I got a lot out of this post, Bobby. I’m feeling a little guilty for wanting a new header for my blog but, you know, I have been giving that too much thought. It’s not what defines my blog, but then again I’m not sure what defines my blog. It moves about in time, amongst age groups, touching upon this, diving into that. Now I’m happy to realize that it can’t actually be branded, any more than I can be branded.
When you ended by hoping you’d been “simplistic enough” I was reminded by what peeves my husband no end, the movement — edict, actually new policy — in his (state) office that all writing must be on an 8th grade level. He wrote a memo to his boss using a bunch of “you knows” and “dudes” and included the scanned Readability Meter indicating it’s appropriateness for new policy.
#39 by Revellian at February 8th, 2009
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Get that new header and make your blog beautiful Lydia–there’s nothing wrong with wanting beautification. I was probably too hard edged in this post and now that I’m reading it today, it is really too negative. This post reflected one mood I had, but I’m really not that one sided.
Ah yes…state policy on an 8th grade level hahaha! Perhaps in a way would be nice so the public could understand it
#40 by Eren- homemaking encouragement at February 8th, 2009
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I also believe in being candidly honest and sincere. Unfortunately people live behind masks. I have had friends that only revealed their true colors after 5 years. It’s really sad.
People are fake and shallow for the most part because of lack of self esteem mixed with selfishness.
By the way- be glad that you’re not with that “girlfriend” who said she would sleep with Brad Pitt.
What kind of love and dedication is that? Or should I say lack of love and dedication?
I’ve been married 12 years. We have the utmost love and respect for each other even though marriage is never easy. It requires true character and commitment.
Anyhoo- as for Obama or any other politician – I don’t trust any of them. Not in any country in the world. I live in Brazil- and they are even worse here with corruptness.
I don’t trust governments- period. It’s good that there is a civilized structure or else we’d go back to the middle ages. But— I don’t place my faith in any government – period.
History has taught us enough to not place our trust in them.
In the end it’s all about doing the best we can with what we have to transform the world around us. I believe in focusing on family first ( I’m a mommy to 3 boys). When they are taken care of then I spend my time helping others that are less fortunate also.
I totally understand your rant =)
Blessings,
Eren
#41 by Revellian at February 8th, 2009
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Hello Erin! Thanks for commenting and it’s great to meet you. It’s almost as if society demands us to wear different masks–one for work, one for friends, one for best friends, one for lovers and so forth; but I have none . . . I am just me. And I don’t know how to have others.
Twelve years of marriage is something to be proud of. I hope to find my true love also, and the search is tiring. I wish you continued happiness with your family
#42 by Michelle Gartner at February 8th, 2009
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Hi Bobby
hmmmmm very interesting lots to comment on but I don’t feel up to generating any comment of substance… kind of worn out both in the brain and body dept.
So I’ll just leave you with…
KILROY was HERE OqO
#43 by Revellian at February 9th, 2009
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Hello Kilroy! Substance is overrated anyway–simplicity is always best
#44 by Melissa Donovan at February 10th, 2009
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Wow, you’re really pissed off today. I’ve been there too.
I agree with much of what you said, especially in the early part of your post when you’re talking about how people worship Jesus who wore rags but are totally hung up on owning things and judging others.
But I disagree about Obama. I think his likability is an important factor. Don’t underestimate the power of boosting morale. He’s inspired a lot of people toward patriotism and instilled hope, and that’s a good start at rebuilding this mess we’ve created – a little positive thinking.
Oddly enough, I look around and see the exact opposite of what you see. I see people tired of the greed, looking to do more to help others instead of themselves, and wanting to make the world a better place. I see people shifting away from the narcissism and toward an existence that more closely reflects what Jesus taught.
But we have a long way to go.
#45 by Revellian at February 10th, 2009
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Hey Melissa! Well, I wasn’t really pissed, but maybe in a dark mood. As I said in previous comments, I was too hard edged in this rant and only displayed one view; of course there’s a flip side.
Sure, a feeling of hope and being likable does have some impact, but I believe many Obama fans like him so much they will not criticize him. Beneath all the politics and what people believe the problems are–the real problems are ignored, never mentioned and people don’t really know what they are.
America is owned by several world banks and proliferated by the Federal Reserve–a gangster loan shark holding every American hostage. And the Fed is not owned or operated by the U.S. government–it is a privately owned bank. Without completely reforming it, all other political promises are window dressing . . . period.
I see the same shift you see and I do get it. But I also see the other side–the side people don’t want to see. Still, I am hopeful. This article displays one view and I have many others–this not representing how I truly see the world. I truly wish Obama the best and hope he makes wise decisions
#46 by Melissa Donovan at February 12th, 2009
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Not to play devil’s advocate, but again, I see the opposite. I keep seeing lots of Obama fans criticizing him – on TV, in articles, even on Facebook. Maybe I just notice those criticisms more.
I recently posted a quote on Twitter: “Constantly choosing the lesser of two evils is still choosing evil.”
Although I agree with the quote, I think we’re better off now than we were for the last eight years.
Yikes, that comment could get me in trouble.
#47 by Revellian at February 12th, 2009
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Hey Melissa you contrarian you! It’s the toughest and most important job on earth for us and the rest of the world. I’m neither left or right–but a little of both. I’m a leftist extremist on social issues like drug laws, gay marriage and equal rights for all races. And I oppose war.
I’ll agree the world is better off without Bush. Sometimes I think Obama is just too nice a guy to inherit the shambles of a roller coaster economy, but I will praise anything good he does–hopefully he does many good things.
Honestly I have opposing views to my own opinions but like to argue from one side or another. Wouldn’t it be cool to write a post arguing two sides so effectively that no reader could comment because you covered every angle without flaw? LOL!