Comments on: The Countryclub Bartender Affair http://revellian.com/2009/02/08/the-countryclub-bartender-affair/ Thoughts and Fiction of Bobby Revell Thu, 20 Oct 2011 16:27:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Revellian http://revellian.com/2009/02/08/the-countryclub-bartender-affair/comment-page-1/#comment-17267 Revellian Wed, 11 Feb 2009 05:14:30 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=2394#comment-17267 Well I have Meleah, and I can't say it was worth it--but I wouldn't change my past even if I could :smile: Well I have Meleah, and I can’t say it was worth it–but I wouldn’t change my past even if I could :smile:

]]> By: meleah rebeccah http://revellian.com/2009/02/08/the-countryclub-bartender-affair/comment-page-1/#comment-17264 meleah rebeccah Tue, 10 Feb 2009 23:53:49 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=2394#comment-17264 "Well, I believe people do have no strings attached sex all the time–but I’m too emotional and can’t do it" I cant either. No way. Ive never been one to have casual sex. ever. “Well, I believe people do have no strings attached sex all the time–but I’m too emotional and can’t do it”

I cant either. No way. Ive never been one to have casual sex. ever.

]]> By: Grog http://revellian.com/2009/02/08/the-countryclub-bartender-affair/comment-page-1/#comment-17260 Grog Tue, 10 Feb 2009 15:15:35 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=2394#comment-17260 Nice...sex as a tool. Classic! Nice…sex as a tool.
Classic!

]]> By: Revellian http://revellian.com/2009/02/08/the-countryclub-bartender-affair/comment-page-1/#comment-17259 Revellian Tue, 10 Feb 2009 08:29:45 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=2394#comment-17259 Thank you Kima! I put some real effort in making this read like a complete short story. It's great to have a guy comment on this. I've often wondered why 95% of my readers are female--even of my hardcore horror--but I do love the ladies and their perspective. It's amazing how most guys (probably) couldn't understand the feeling. Most of my male friends would like nothing better than emotion free sex with no strings. You like women in the same way I do . . . which is treating them with respect and wanting real love :smile: Thank you Kima! I put some real effort in making this read like a complete short story.

It’s great to have a guy comment on this. I’ve often wondered why 95% of my readers are female–even of my hardcore horror–but I do love the ladies and their perspective. It’s amazing how most guys (probably) couldn’t understand the feeling. Most of my male friends would like nothing better than emotion free sex with no strings. You like women in the same way I do . . . which is treating them with respect and wanting real love :smile:

]]> By: Kima http://revellian.com/2009/02/08/the-countryclub-bartender-affair/comment-page-1/#comment-17258 Kima Tue, 10 Feb 2009 08:12:09 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=2394#comment-17258 oh boy oh boy! :-) I thought there was going to be a lot of fictional gore and body parts, but reading the first two para last night (yes I had to leave office in a hurry so couldn't comment then) I knew this story was something else! :) And of course the last line cleared things up. Well written, well narrated, well described, everything interestingly described, hence the reason why I read it again just now even though I read it last night :) I know I was expecting a lot of blood and gore and pain and disfigurement and death, but experiencing something like this must be even more painful than all that. And no offense intended to all the great supportive comments above me which are really good and warm, but as I believe I am the first guy to comment here, do trust me when I say I know how that feels like Bobby. I really do. oh boy oh boy! :-) I thought there was going to be a lot of fictional gore and body parts, but reading the first two para last night (yes I had to leave office in a hurry so couldn’t comment then) I knew this story was something else! :) And of course the last line cleared things up.

Well written, well narrated, well described, everything interestingly described, hence the reason why I read it again just now even though I read it last night :)

I know I was expecting a lot of blood and gore and pain and disfigurement and death, but experiencing something like this must be even more painful than all that. And no offense intended to all the great supportive comments above me which are really good and warm, but as I believe I am the first guy to comment here, do trust me when I say I know how that feels like Bobby. I really do.

]]> By: Revellian http://revellian.com/2009/02/08/the-countryclub-bartender-affair/comment-page-1/#comment-17253 Revellian Tue, 10 Feb 2009 05:11:00 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=2394#comment-17253 @Teeni: Perhaps it is sad, but the only way to really learn the lessons in life. On the other hand, 9 of 10 men would never get upset--they just move on to the next and think I was a fool for falling in love because of sex. @Meleah: Well, I believe people do have no strings attached sex all the time--but I'm too emotional and can't do it. I must be in love with someone who loves me or sex ain't happening. @Paisley: Of course not, but I was already heartbroken and wanted to be loved. It felt like love for a while. When you are desperate to be cared about, it's difficult to see the truth. @Jennifer: Thank you. This was one of many events that diminished my willingness to trust. Some of my guy friends say I see sex & love like a woman. I tell them they see sex & love like little boys. My parents taught me sex is not to be taken lightly or be casual--and this taught me why. I wish I could say the memories are fond, but they feel more like a nightmare. Reading your site--more than any other--inspired me to tell this in a story like fashion. See . . . I told you; your writing has influenced me. @Teeni: Perhaps it is sad, but the only way to really learn the lessons in life. On the other hand, 9 of 10 men would never get upset–they just move on to the next and think I was a fool for falling in love because of sex.

@Meleah: Well, I believe people do have no strings attached sex all the time–but I’m too emotional and can’t do it. I must be in love with someone who loves me or sex ain’t happening.

@Paisley: Of course not, but I was already heartbroken and wanted to be loved. It felt like love for a while. When you are desperate to be cared about, it’s difficult to see the truth.

@Jennifer: Thank you. This was one of many events that diminished my willingness to trust. Some of my guy friends say I see sex & love like a woman. I tell them they see sex & love like little boys. My parents taught me sex is not to be taken lightly or be casual–and this taught me why. I wish I could say the memories are fond, but they feel more like a nightmare. Reading your site–more than any other–inspired me to tell this in a story like fashion. See . . . I told you; your writing has influenced me.

]]> By: Jennifer http://revellian.com/2009/02/08/the-countryclub-bartender-affair/comment-page-1/#comment-17252 Jennifer Tue, 10 Feb 2009 04:46:33 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=2394#comment-17252 Bobby -- Very vivid portrayal of what most people don't see in the country club world, and of your part in it as observer, confidant, and, to some extent, participant. You definitely captured that rush of love and sex and heartbreak. I'm sorry it happened that way, but you conjured a story out of it. And I wanted to say "Stay away from that woman! It's a trap!" At the same time, it sounded very sweet (or at the very least intense) while it lasted, and that really is something. Bobby — Very vivid portrayal of what most people don’t see in the country club world, and of your part in it as observer, confidant, and, to some extent, participant. You definitely captured that rush of love and sex and heartbreak. I’m sorry it happened that way, but you conjured a story out of it.

And I wanted to say “Stay away from that woman! It’s a trap!” At the same time, it sounded very sweet (or at the very least intense) while it lasted, and that really is something.

]]> By: paisley http://revellian.com/2009/02/08/the-countryclub-bartender-affair/comment-page-1/#comment-17245 paisley Mon, 09 Feb 2009 20:18:32 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=2394#comment-17245 please tell me this is fiction and you did not really believe this woman when she said she loved you........ please tell me this is fiction and you did not really believe this woman when she said she loved you……..

]]> By: meleah rebeccah http://revellian.com/2009/02/08/the-countryclub-bartender-affair/comment-page-1/#comment-17244 meleah rebeccah Mon, 09 Feb 2009 20:07:34 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=2394#comment-17244 This sounds just like My Country Club! And there is NO SUCH THING as No Strings Attached Sex! This sounds just like My Country Club!

And there is NO SUCH THING as No Strings Attached Sex!

]]> By: teeni http://revellian.com/2009/02/08/the-countryclub-bartender-affair/comment-page-1/#comment-17241 teeni Mon, 09 Feb 2009 18:17:08 +0000 http://revellian.com/?p=2394#comment-17241 Aw, Bobby. This is sad. My heart wrenched for you as I could see where this was going. A hard lesson to learn. Aw, Bobby. This is sad. My heart wrenched for you as I could see where this was going. A hard lesson to learn.

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