A brilliant martial arts instructor, Dr. Donald Green (a PhD in both psychology and sociology and master of Moo Duk Kwan or “school of martial virtue” – a hardcore Korean kicking art) told me once while referring to another student who was full of his own egotism, “Listen closely to what he says – and even closer to what he doesn’t say. Study his reaction, his reddened face, when he experiences embarrassment, when he gloats and when he places himself so highly. He doesn’t say much, but what he does say reveals so much about him. Many times, people reveal all they are in only one or two sentences.”
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