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Endless Thanks To Jennifer

Jennifer, author of Writing To Survive has featured me as her February Blog of the Month–please check out the article, it is wonderful. Go visit her and read her work. She is truly a great writer with a distinctive style overflowing in heart, tears and depth–something rare in the blogosphere.

As I told her, I’ve always felt like a black sheep blogger. I don’t feel like I fit in any where–in any cliques and so on. There are many different writing based communities and little groups of writers, but I don’t feel welcome in their inner circles. Many fiction writers are snobbish and pretentious, have stilted opinions of what good is and why some work is garbage. I’m more open–meaning I read all genres and can appreciate everything from romance, erotic noir to horror to sentimental stories of personal triumph and all between. The more fearless of ridicule a writer is, the more I like them. I say write unapologetically regardless of fallout–and your readers will gather.

In high school and college, my literature professors degraded me while bathing other writers in limelight–not because they were skilled, but because of what they wrote about. It really hurt. I was taught that a descriptive sex scene, extreme profanity, first person perspective of murder or cannibalism is both immoral and automatically brands it rubbish–makes it trashy and low class. I rebelled . . . did I ever rebel.

I became an extremist writer. I will never write to be popular.

I often write things other people are afraid to write or disgusted by . . . probably because society says it’s wrong in many respects. I’m really fortunate to have friends and fans who actually read my more questionable content–that appreciate my craft and how much care I place in each sentence, each individual word–even if the story is sickening or terrifying. I only know one thing: I love to write (and read).

Thank you Jennifer from the bottom of my heart for shining a little limelight on little ol’ me. It means a lot and I will never forget it.

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The Myth of Mental-Spiritual Limitation

Let’s consider the words expansive and vastness for a while. When considering the vastness of the universe, we believe we have an idea of how big it actually is, but we do not. Compared to the vastness of the universe, the planet Earth is smaller than an electron inside a single atom . . . infinitely smaller. In addition, the universe is not only gargantuan, it is expanding–getting larger every second. Even if we could conceptualize just how big the universe is, by the time we did, it would already be vastly larger than it was upon the moment of our realization.

The Earth is one planet circling our sun. Our sun is one star in a stupendous galaxy, and there are billions of galaxies. But as humans, we really have no idea just how vast our universe is. To make things even more staggering, there is more than one universe. According to physics (string theory and M-theory) there are eleven parallel dimensions. I’ve read several books about string and M-theory, studied physics, chemistry and calculus in college, but I will not get into anything mathematical here–I want to keep this simple and leave the over-intellectual, pretentious and eloquence aside.

There are eleven dimensions, which makes any concept of expansiveness and vastness so small–we cannot comprehend–or can we? There are eleven of you. There are eleven of me. There are eleven of Bobby (that’s me) living in eleven parallel dimensions–this being one of them–and all are connected by a central line–all part of one. We are much more than we believe we are. We are eleven beings sharing one soul so to speak. They left that out of the bible didn’t they? In essence, we never die–not because we end up in heaven or hell–but because we are living our lives . . . somewhere in time . . . eternally.

Let’s consider time. We believe we are here at this very moment, and is the only place we can be . . . right now. Think about this: Every single breath we’ve ever taken we are taking right now. At this precise moment, we are being born, turning 1,2,3,4, and so forth–we’ve already died, forgotten by eternity. Somewhere in time, all these moments are happening and always will be–we just happen to be aware of this moment–our past and future selves are only aware of their own moment–and there are eleven of us. Of course, all these are theories, not necessarily facts. Some physicists say there could be infinite universes–but nobody really knows. I’m not here to argue about theories, but to share an idea:

All said . . . as mind boggling as it may be . . . I arrive at the point of the article. The central motif. When considering the words expansive and vastness; how they relate to your understanding of the universe and all eleven parallel dimensions–our minds are more vast and more expansive than everything. Our minds are limitless. Our minds more vast and more expansive than the universe and all its dimensions.

I strongly correlate these concepts to my life long study of Taoism, Zen and Yoga. The idea of enlightenment or illumination is really the same as understanding we have no limitations (as long as we’re healthy and alive). All beliefs of limitation are myths and self-imposed. We believe we can’t, therefore we can’t. We believe we can, therefore we can. Easier said than done, but we can overcome limitations.

Something simple we can all relate to is writer’s block. Writer’s block is a myth. There is no such thing. It only exists if you want it to. When you crush all limitations, smash all boundaries–all those things confining us no longer exist. Think limitlessly and be like water. If you think I’m wrong, perhaps you should spend the rest of your life studying Zen and Yoga.

In my case and my writing, I apply this universal idea to my fiction. This is probably one reason I write what I do. Here’s one small example: I never say, “I can’t write this or that. I’m not knowledgeable enough to write this or it’s not accepted by society. This is offensive and people may not like me. This is so revolting, it is a disgrace.” I never think this is what I consider quality or good and limit myself in such a narrow fissure.

I reject all precepts of what people believe good, skilled, beautiful, meaningful and artistic are. These ideas are merely opinion and are irrelevant. If a so-called master of poetry or professor of literature thinks my work is either great or drivel–it is just one person’s opinion and offers no validity whatsoever. They may not understand it. They may just be so set in their ways, only certain subjects interest them. I reject this entire notion. I cannot be set in my ways because I have no ways. To be truly artistic and creative, you must be free and absolute in your conviction. Societal norms, taboo? I say bah.

One writer with an extreme influence on me is Carlos Castaneda. He says humans have four natural enemies. They are listed in order as you cannot understand the second until overcoming the first.

  1. Fear of Death: We must overcome the fear of death before becoming an official beginner in life. Most people die of old age before ever getting close to this point.
  2. Clarity: The fear of death conquered, we have clarity. Seeing the truth in everything; unable to not see truth. A pristine and clear view of all.
  3. Power: The most dangerous. Balancing true power while walking the razor wire of greed and desire. Having the wisdom to know the fine line between power and lustful evil. This is where most fail. Most people with power haven’t gotten past step one and don’t deserve it. True power has nothing to do with money, success or material things.
  4. Old age: The final enemy. We all must face it if we’re lucky enough to live to this point.

What say you? Do you place limitations on your thoughts? Do you fester guilt for thinking bad thoughts? Do you think of yourself as being limitless? Do you let society control your artistic creativity? Do you judge others? Categorize people? Categorize yourself? Is your mind and expressiveness expansive and vast? Can you do this without ego?

To sum it up, I share my favorite Zen axiom:

Nothing exists . . . all things are becoming.

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Want Blogging Inspiration? Change Your Attitude

Change your blogging attitude for blogging inspiration? I know I said I’d never write another blogging tips post, but I lied . . . sort of. I caught glimpse of some Twitter Tweets where a few people voiced their lack of blogging inspiration or they were a little burned out. So . . . what is the cure? What can you do to incite blogging passion–to get excited about writing? Fire breathing, over the top full throttle freaking blogging excitement? Well, I have a few ideas and I will share them with you.
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Finding Natural Purpose in Writing

One of the most important lessons I’ve ever learned is to see the world through a child’s eyes; open, reflective, honest, eager and bright eyed–dying to know how things work, why things happen the way they do and so forth–to maintain an interrogative state of mind. And then the real world stabs you in the heart. It’s happened to me a thousand times over and I perpetually fight my own cynicism . . . constantly.
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Is Profanity Acceptable In Blogging?

What do you think? Is Profanity acceptable in blogging? For me, it depends on the article. If I write a post about SEO or depression, cursing would be a huge turn off and my readers would take offense to it. Sometimes, I take the approach that I’m talking to my readers as a friend, so I may slip in something as I would in everyday life – naturally, not forced or put there to offend.
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The Negative Side of Positive Thinking

Has it ever crossed your mind that positive thinking has a negative side or that negative thinking has a positive side? Some people get so caught up in self help and being success oriented that they over do it. Sometimes, I just want to yell something negative at someone or say something incredibly pessimistic. I have a dark and sometimes twisted sense of humor, and too much positivity gets under my skin.
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My Criticism of Literary, Artistic and Musical Criticism

I read a mind shredding amount of literary critique and writing tips oriented blogs this week. I found most of them to be uninspired and in many cases, detrimental to artistic creation. It’s so funny that I found myself seeing the same things I’ve read from any form of criticism or artistic self-help – a bunch of useless opinionated elitism. There are some good ones out there, but aren’t easy to find.

It can be a daunting task to know the difference between solid, constructive criticism and bad advice. Sometimes, a solid critique can bring you to reality, and pop your bubble – so to speak. Just because someone has a college education, does not guarantee they can or will give a beneficial critique. An education does not mean they are a great writers themselves. I love to draw parallels to martial arts. If a person is a 9th degree black belt in Karate, does it mean they can actually fight? Absolutely not. I love the guys who have the words “Karate Master” written across the back of their uniforms. A real master would never have such things written on his uniform. Be careful picking a teacher in anything, especially on the Internet.

A critic is someone with an opinion, supposedly based on their knowledge of a subject, but is really based on what that person likes, or was taught to like. The first time I heard classical music, I liked it. I didn’t have a teacher explain why classical music is good, but I knew it was; I could hear the complexity, logic and wondrous beauty. In college, I studied music, and had a teacher try to shape or change my opinion by telling me why popular music, such as rock, was insignificant noise and deserved no recognition. The same is true of many literary teachers and critics. They will try to teach you how to have a cultured, sophisticated opinion, which is on a much higher level than that of a normal person. I changed my major because of it and taught myself.

I learned that most of my teachers had an extremely limited scope of artistic expression. If you are a stuffy, sophisticated and highly educated person who believes their conception of what is good is more valid than someone who isn’t, you are really just an arrogant human being who does more harm than good. It is very possible to be highly educated and still love B-grade horror flicks with no plot or love comic books.

You cannot tell someone what to like or what is good. I appreciate nearly all literature, but it is all different – much like movies are. The worst, most boring movie I have ever seen in my entire life was “The English Patient”, which won nine academy awards in 1997, including best picture. I understand why the film is supposed to be a masterpiece, but it is still uninspired and boring to me. Please, criticize me for saying that. Of course it is only my opinion – I don’t like long, boring movies.

If a musician studies music in college, let’s say, in classical guitar performance, that person will most likely end up an incredibly limited musician in the long run. I have a friend who has a master’s degree in that very curriculum, but can only play music that is written on paper. He cannot play other forms of music such as jazz, blues, funk, reggae or rock – and especially cannot freely improvise in every style. Some musicians play by ear, some play what is written. A real musician can do both.

Though I do not have a degree in music, he takes lessons from me and has for the last two years. I know how to read music and can perform many classical and baroque pieces, but that is just one tiny part of what I do. I see writing the same way.

What If Writers Were Like Classical Musicians

This is an interesting subject to contemplate. What if a writer said, “I can rewrite any Shakespeare work from start to finish. I can also recite it aloud, with expressive and dramatic passion…from memory.”

My answer is, “So what.”

It’s like saying you can repaint “The Mona Lisa” or can play Bach’s “Bourrée in E minor” on a piano. It does require skill and practice, but it isn’t art, it is imitation. It’s much like performing a complex classical piece from start to finish. The problem is, you didn’t create it. Performing something someone else wrote is not a matter of talent, but a matter of drive, perseverance and natural physical or mental ability. To write your own music is where the art is. Many writers do similar things. Some writers love the works of Jane Austen and can write in a similar voice and structure. Some authors have based their entire careers on trying to be her, instead of finding their own voice and style. Some of them have even become famous doing just that!

The point is, no one artist, author, poet, computer programmer or blogger is any more valid than any other – it depends on what you like. I have every bit as sophisticated perception as anyone else, but I also love popular literature, music and art; as well as obscure, unusual music and so forth. I love music such as underground death metal as well as Bach or John Coltrane. Famous classical guitarist Andres Segovia said that electric guitar and rock music was painful to his ears and disgusting to hear. Compare a modern guitar master like Joe Satriani or Stevie Ray Vaughn to Andres Segovia. Who is better? They are all good. One thing is for sure, Stevie Ray Vaughn would decimate Andres in a live blues Jam!

Everything is Valid and Relevant

All art, literature and music is valid and none should be put on a pedestal and thought of as more important than another. Guitarist Joe Satriani by comparison has vastly more knowledge of music than Segovia ever did, but because he plays rock, will never be held in as high regard. It is purely genre bias.

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Classical martial arts are much like other classical art forms. They are rigid, traditional, inflexible and limited. Famous martial arts pioneer Bruce Lee said it was this “classical mess” that limited all forms of artistic expression. Bruce took bits of boxing, kung fu, karate, savate, fencing, kali, escrima, his own ideas and made up his own art; thus shattering all preconceived notions, completely revolutionizing martial arts. He proved how ineffective many of these arts actually were and insulted many masters from across the world. If you write, paint, play music or whatever; I highly recommend you read Bruce Lee’s masterpiece, The Tao of Jeet Kune Do. It is one of the finest books on artistic expression ever written. This is a book written for all artists and I still read from it quite regularly. It’s amazing how beneficial Lee’s work can be to a writer. He can help you smash all limits and take yourself beyond anything you may have previously believed.

The Ego Must Be Destroyed

Criticism has more to do with ego and respect than it does in helping a person reach their goals. Don’t ever let someone’s negative criticism affect you. Rise above it and be yourself. If you take too much advice from people, it will only hinder your progress and keep you from fully realizing your dreams. My dream is to write, and no criticism will ever keep me from being successful. I do listen with an open mind, but only accept it if it is truly constructive and beneficial. I believe that morbid tales of terror are every bit as valid as anything Shakespeare ever wrote. If you compare yourself to other people, thinking “they’re better than me” or “I’m better than them”, then you have an ego problem. The ego is the greatest single hindrance to all forms of artistic expression. Just because you’re famous or successful doesn’t mean you’re good, it just means you’re famous and successful – but that’s another subject for another time.

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Bobby’s Batch #11 – Dedication To The Fanciful Muse

I’ve been taking a short blogging break, but only for a few days. I must take occasional time off to prevent madness and insanity. Happy Easter to all who celebrate and I hope the Easter Bunny brings wonderful baskets to everyone. Hey…I want a chocolate bunny too!

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Now, how many of you have ever become burned out from blogging? Have you ever thought about throwing in the towel? Before you ever even consider it, I want to introduce you to someone who blogs for the love of writing. She has been through much in her long run and is only getting better. She doesn’t care about irrelevant things such as stats or how popular she is; however, when it comes to writing excellence, imagination, passion and integrity – she is a shining star! Read on.

I raise a well deserved toast (of root beer…hehe, no alcohol here) to my wonderful friend, Square1, brilliant author of The Fanciful Muse. If any one person deserves acclaim, it is her. Read forward and see why:

Square1 always makes it difficult to choose as every post is great. I hadn’t noticed before, but she has been blogging since 1997 (wow, that is a long time)! She has become one of my all time favorite bloggers and there are many reasons for this. As you can see, Square1 is very special to me personally. Besides what she does in writing, it’s what she doesn’t do that impresses me just as much. She doesn’t even lift a finger to gain traffic for herself and spends her time giving instead. This is one of my personal blogging principles, and reading her work has helped me define it even further. She has helped educate me about the Muslim faith also, something everyone should learn more about.

Her first post (as far as I know) was Dreams and Whispers, a beautiful poem published March 14, 1997 (what were you doing back then? I first heard of blogging in 2005!). I’ve spent quite a bit of time at her blog, and am fortunate to have met her. From the first time I visited her (just a few moths ago), she has been such a good friend to me and everyone who gets to know her. She is a tremendous writer in every way; poetry, prose, fiction, writing analysis and deep insight into her personal philosophies.

This week is no exception, every post is fantastic. I loved her short poem Robbed – compact and powerful. Also, I really enjoyed her personal post, If I Could… There are far too many posts to list. I suggest that you read many of her articles and you’ll be glad you did.

I dedicate this post to Square1 and praise her incredible perseverance and talent. This is my eleventh batch of posts and her eleventh year of blogging! It’s such a cool coincidence that I just noticed the “eleven” connection. Here’s to you Square1 and to many more years to come – you are an inspiration to me. I consider you one of the best. Have a wonderful year! Yay!

Now to a very new blogger I mentioned in my previous batch. As many of you know, one of my favorite things to do is find and write about talented writers. My new friend Moyrn of UnEloquence Mortalized is in my humble opinion, one of the the most talented young writers I have ever met. At the ripe old age of 17, her writing is nothing short of incredible. Go read several posts and see what I mean.

Moyrn is also the author of Tomes of the False Gods – a blog dedicated to poetry, prose and other assorted musings. I read this entire blog and so should you. She wrote a perplexing poem entitled, Brown Stain, which is a poetic metaphor for what was left of a coffee drop. There is much behind the words…very much. Her newest short story, The False Encounter was quite wonderful and very well crafted. Praise be to Joonigod!

Laila posted “Hemaya” Anti-Drug Campaign – this is an important article about drugs and how they are destroying the lives of young people, often before their lives really even start. After knowing 19 people who died because of drugs and alcohol (all before they reached the age of 35), there is no subject more important.

If you have a blogspot blog and want a top commentators widget, there is finally one available. I know ton’s of bloggers going crazy for this long awaited addition. The easiest way to get it is from Top Commenter’s Widget for Blogger Blogs! Amanda Fazani from Blogger Buster simplified the idea which is based on Yahoo Pipes. Check it out!

Todd from Success With Todd posted a great article, The Power of Rewarding Yourself. This blog features many subjects and is loosely focused on personal development and marketing – allowing ample room for both fun and variety!

Mike from Things By Mike posted the extremely useful A couple tips for WordPress newbies. As you may know, there are several plug ins for a blogroll / links page available for self-hosted wordpress blogs. Well, they kinda suck for lack of a better phrase. Mike shows you how to create one from scratch…step by step, including the CSS. Thanks Mike!

I want to thank my friend Christy from Christy’s Coffee Break for bringing attention to something that literally shocked me with Obama Is Satan? I Had No Idea! Hey, neither did I…hahaha! She also had a very cool post showing The Face Of Johann Sebastian Bach. Using computer based facial reconstruction, Bach’s face was uncovered. He looks nothing like anyone could have imagined…go check it out!

Last but not least, I wrote an extremely strange poem entitled Eleven last year which is indicative of my peculiar style of writing. If you can decipher the poem’s meaning, let me know! It falls under the “Zen-horror-philosophy” genre which is my invention and truly defines me. I further play with the concept in Silent Dreams of Nothingness.

I had to add this one on at the last minute. Debbie Dolphin, on her new blog Miss Moneypenny CPU put together a very funny post, Happy Easter Egg Hunt with some really weird eggs as well as a bizarre video where some giggling eggs are boiled and then they dyed alive!

I can’t find the originator of the chocolate bunny picture, it is on literally dozens of blogs. If you created it, let me know. I’ve seen it around and thought it was humorous.

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